SAFE AND SOUND:
A SAFETY AWARENESS CURRICULUM FOR STUDENTS WHO ARE
VISUALLY IMPAIRED AND HAVE MULTIPLE DISABILITIES

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Stephen
Goodman, Director of Pupil Personnel Services
Cheryl Besden
Acknowledgments:
The
The
Table of Contents
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CHAPTER 1: INTRODUCTION…………………………………………………….
Rationale……………………………...…………………………………………........ Family Involvement ………………………………………………………..………... Multicultural Education………………………………………………….……….….. Gender Issues……………………………………………………………………….. Handling Student Disclosures ……………………………………………………... Identifying Abuse or Potential Abuse……...……………………………….………. Reporting Abuse of Children with Disabilities…………………………..…………. Reporting Abuse of Dependent Adults…………………………………………….. Students’ Rights and Responsibilities……..………………………………….…… CHAPTER 2: USING AND ADAPTING THIS CURRICULUM…………...……..
How to Use This Curriculum………………………………………………………... Teaching Methods…………………………..……………………………………….. How to Adapt This Curriculum……………………………………………………… Strategies for Teaching Students with Visual Impairments…………………….... Adapting the Curriculum for Young Students……………………....……………... Sample Modified Lesson…................................................................................ Adapting the Curriculum for Students with Cognitive Disabilities………………. Sample Modified Lesson ................................................................................… Adapting the Curriculum for Students Who Are English Language Learners… Sample Modified Lesson…................................................................................ Blank Pre/Post Test Form………………………………………………………….. CHAPTER 3: PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES……..…………………………………..…
Pre/Post Tests for Chapter
3……………………..…………………..………….….
Lesson 1: Types of People in the World…………….………………………….… Lesson 2: Fitting the People in Our World into Categories….…..…………..… Lesson 3: People in the Community……………..…………………………….….. CHAPTER 4: TOUCHING……………….…………………………………………..
Pre/Post Tests for Chapter
4……………………..………………………………….
Different Types of Touch…………………………………………………………….. People in Our Lives Who Touch Us………………………………………………… How Touch Makes Us Feel………………………………………………………….. CHAPTER 5: PRIVATE VS. PUBLIC…………………..……………………….…
Pre/Post Test for Chapter
5………………………….…...…………………………
Lesson 1: Public and Private Space………………………………………………
Lesson 2: Private Body Parts………………………………………………………
Lesson 3: Private and Public
Clothing……………....…………………………….
CHAPTER 6: SAFETY IN THE COMMUNITY………………………………........
Pre/Post Tests for Chapter
6……………………..………………………………….
Lesson 1: Planning Ahead…………………………………………………………..
Lesson 2: Your
ID…………………………………………………………………….
Lesson 3: Your Personal
Information Is Private………………………………….
Lesson 4: Keeping Your Money Safe…………………………………..……….... Lesson 5: Looking Confident………………………………………………………. Lesson 6: Uh Oh, I’m Lost, Now
What?………………..………………………… Lesson 7: Stranger
Danger………………………………………………………… Lesson 8: Safety on Public
Transportation………………………………………. Lesson 9: Panhandlers and Solicitors…………………………………………….
Lesson 10: When Do You Call 9-1-1?……………………………………………. Lesson 11: Responding to an Attack………………………………………………. CHAPTER 7: SAFETY IN THE HOME…….…………………........................….
Pre/Post Tests for Chapter
7……………………..………………………………….
Lesson 1: Keeping Your Home Secure from Intruders
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Lesson 2: Strangers at the Door or on the
Phone……………………………….
Lesson 3: Emergency-If a Stranger Is in Your
Home………………………….
RESOURCE
LIST……………………………………………………………………
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Elaborated
Table of Contents
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CHAPTER 1: INTRODUCTION…………………………………………………….
Rationale……………………………...…………………………………………........ Family Involvement ………………………………………………………..………... Multicultural Education………………………………………………….……….…. Gender Issues……………………………………………………………………….. Handling Student Disclosures ……………………………………………………... Identifying Abuse or Potential Abuse……...……………………………….……… Reporting Abuse of Children with Disabilities……………………………………. Reporting Abuse of Dependent Adults……………………………………………. Students’ Rights and Responsibilities……..……………………………………… CHAPTER 2: USING AND ADAPTING THIS CURRICULUM………………….
How to Use This Curriculum……………………………………………………….. Teaching Methods…………………………..………………………………………. How to Adapt This Curriculum……………………………………………………… Strategies for Teaching Students with Visual Impairments……………………... Adapting the Curriculum for Young Students……………………....…………….. Sample Modified Lesson…................................................................................ Adapting the Curriculum for Students with Cognitive Disabilities………………. Sample Modified Lesson................................................................................… Adapting the Curriculum for Students Who Are English Language Learners.... Sample Modified Lesson…................................................................................ Blank Pre/Post Test Form………………………………………………………….. CHAPTER 3: PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES………………………………………..….
Pre/Post Tests for Chapter
3…………………..……………………..………….…
Objective 1: Students will define the different categories of people in the world, including Family Member/Relative, Friend, Acquaintance, Helping Person, Friendly Stranger and “Uh-oh” Stranger.
Objective 1: Students will identify the categories into which people in their lives fit.
Objective 1: Students will use identification skills and appropriate greetings with people in the community. CHAPTER 4: TOUCHING………………………………………………………….
Pre/Post Tests for Chapter
4……………………..……………………………….
Objective 1: Students will be able to give examples of different kinds of touch that people experience. Objective 2: Student will
identify that they need to give permission to be touched and that they can
state their preferences for how they want to be touched.
Objective 1: Students will be able to state that it is OK for a family member to hug them, but not OK for a stranger to hug them.
Objective 1: Students will label kinds of touch as being safe or
unsafe. Objective 2: Students will
describe the feelings they have when they are safe and when they are not safe
and have the “uh-oh” feeling. Objective 3: Students will identify a trusted adult they can talk to if they have an “uh-oh” feeling. CHAPTER 5: PRIVATE VS. PUBLIC…………………..…………………………
Pre/Post Tests for Chapter
5………………………….…...………………………
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Lesson 1: Public and Private
Space……………………………………..
Objective 1:
Students will learn to identify public vs. private space.
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Lesson 2: Private Body Parts.
…………………………………………….
Objective 1: Students will identify, define, and name
the private body parts.
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Lesson 3: Private and Public
Clothing…………………………………….
Objective 1: Students will correctly identify which
clothing is used for private and non-private parts, and where it is
appropriate to wear certain clothing.
CHAPTER 6: SAFETY IN THE COMMUNITY……………………………........
Pre/Post Tests for Chapter
6.…………………..………………………………….
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Lesson 1: Planning Ahead………………………………………………..
Objective1: Students will describe when, where, and
with whom it is safe to travel.
Objective 2: Students will describe what they should
wear when they are going out into the community.
Objective 3: Students will describe what materials they
should take along when going into the community.
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Lesson 2: Your ID…………………………………….…………………….
Objective 1:
Students will be able to explain why it is important to have their ID
with them and whom it is safe to show their ID to.
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Lesson 3: Your Personal Information is Private…………………………
Objective 1: Students will demonstrate during a role-play a non-confrontational refusal to answer a stranger who asks for personal information.
Objective 1: Students will
identify that their money is for their own use Objective 2: Students will demonstrate where they can safely carry their money when in the community.
Objective 1: Students will demonstrate a confident posture and gait. Objective 2: Students will demonstrate how to walk at as quick a pace
as possible while using their cane (if applicable). Objective 3: Students will
learn to keep head up and eyes forward and to keep moving when confronted by
strangers. Objective 4: Students will show
how to keep wallet and bags in a safe place.
Objective 1: Students will
demonstrate in a role-play situation how to get away from a stranger who is
trying to convince them to go with him. Objective 2: Students will
demonstrate in a role-play situation how to politely but clearly deflect
unwanted attention (e.g., “Excuse me, do you need any help?” reply with “No,
thank you”) and assertively respond to dangerous attention (“Leave me
alone!”).
Objective1: Students will
identify the bus driver as a helping person who can help them solve problems
on the bus. Objective 2: Students will
respond safely during a role-play situation in which a stranger who is
bothering them on a bus. Objective 3: Students will demonstrate during a role-play situation what kinds of personal information they should give to a transportation provider. ·
Lesson 9: Panhandlers and Solicitors.......................................……….
Objective 1: Students will
identify themselves as the owner of their money. Objective 2: During a role-play situation, students will ignore or say “no” if someone asks them for money.
Objective1: Students will be able to name 9-1-1 as the number to call if they are in danger. Objective 2: Students will demonstrate understanding that they do not call 9-1-1 if someone is rude to them or if there was an emergency yesterday.
Objective: Students will
demonstrate in a role-play a calm and non-confrontational response if they
are mugged. Objective 2: Students will
demonstrate in a role-play use of a loud voice and assertive language if a
stranger tries to get them to go with her/him. Objective 3: Students will
describe ways to get away and where they can go to get help. Objective 4:
Students/instructor will locate local resources for self-defense
training. Objective 5: Students will
demonstrate a non-confrontational response in a role-play if a person says
mean things or tries to start a fight. CHAPTER 7: SAFETY IN THE HOME……...………………........................….
Pre/Post Tests for Chapter
7…………………..………………………………….
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Lesson 1: Keeping Your Home
Secure from Intruders ……………….
Objective 1: Students will be able to state upon request at least five ways to keep their home secure from intruders. ·
Lesson 2: Strangers at the Door
or on the Phone………………………
Objective
1: Students will be able to state
different ways to interact safely with strangers at the door or on the phone. ·
Lesson 3: Emergency-If a
Stranger Is in Your Home………………….
Objective 1: Student will be able to state that she/he
should get away and get help if a stranger is in her/his home. RESOURCE LIST…………………………………………………………………… |
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Cheryl
Besden and
· Rationale
· Family Involvement
· Multicultural Education
· Handling Student Disclosures
· Identifying Abuse or
Potential Abuse
· Reporting Abuse of Children
with Disabilities
· Reporting Abuse of Dependent
Adults
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Rationale |
The
issue of personal safety seems to inevitably come up when you talk to anyone
who works with children and young adults.
Common questions include:
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How can
we prepare our students to deal with strangers?
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How do
we teach safety skills so that each student really understands?
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How do
we help students generalize their skills?
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How can
we better measure their understanding of what is being taught?
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The
parents and the teacher don’t agree on how safe the student is. How can we get the whole team working
together?
There are many
quality curricula available, but none specifically targets students with visual
impairments and multiple disabilities.
In response to this need, the
These guidelines
are designed to be used by teachers, other staff, and parents, and to
complement other CSB curricula (such as the Family Life Curriculum). While some aspects of human sexuality will
be discussed, such as teaching the private body parts, the focus of this
curriculum is on personal safety, rather than sexuality education.
People who are visually impaired are at greater risk of assault than the general population (David, Kollmar, & McCall, 1998). Seventy five percent of people who are visually impaired “will be, or have been, assaulted in their lifetimes” (Collinsworth, 2001). Visually impaired women report feeling more vulnerable than their sighted counterparts (Milan & Erin, 2001). Students who are blind, visually impaired, or deaf-blind may face greater risks than adults with comparable disabilities. These risks are due in part to:
·
Students
having poor communication skills (for example: the ability to describe an
incident)
·
Students
lacking in typical social interactions (for example: being isolated from others
who may watch over them)
·
Students
having cognitive impairments (for example: may not understand “rules” of
safety)
·
Students
being concrete rather than abstract learners (for example: may not be able to
apply learned rules to new situations or people)
Risky
behavior can have a direct influence on one’s safety. Young people, especially teenagers, take
risks as part of normal development.
Educators and caregivers have a responsibility to help students take
“healthy risks” (Ponton, 1997).
Our students have the
same needs and curiosity as sighted students.
However, they may (Moss & Blaha, 1991):
·
Miss
out on incidental learning
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Need to
use the tactual sense more than is typically accepted to compensate for their
visual impairment
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Miss
feedback regarding their own behavior
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Receive
inconsistent messages regarding their behavior
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Have
difficulty changing behavior patterns that have been established
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Take
longer to learn or relearn safe and appropriate behavior patterns
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Feel
dependent upon caregivers and thus not able to report incidents of abuse or
victimization
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Have
been taught to comply with people deemed to be authoritative
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Family Involvement |
It is crucial that the people in a student’s
life work together to provide consistent learning opportunities and support. In order for students to generalize
information, it is necessary for family members and caregivers to take a
teaching role. A coordinated, team
approach is best, and that team consists of people in the school and home
environments.
During this collaborative
process, it is important that the values of each student’s family be recognized
and respected. Family members may feel
uncomfortable with teaching their child concepts or strategies related to
safety. They might misunderstand,
thinking the student is being taught “sex” or “how to have sex.” Family values might prohibit the use of
certain words. They could feel that
their child is not “ready” for such a curriculum. They may fear that if their child has been a
victim of abuse, an adverse reaction will be displayed during the class or at
another time (Turnbull &Turnbull, 1996).
Working as a team
in a structured format with consistent and open communication will help
everyone to be active participants in teaching this curriculum. Family members should have their questions
and concerns answered completely and in a timely manner. Some parents
may have excellent ideas to offer and might even be willing to speak with other
parents.
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Multicultural Education |
As with all
curricula those teaching this curriculum must be aware and respectful of the
diverse backgrounds of our student population (Milan & Erin, 2001).
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Gender Issues |
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Handling Student Disclosures |
It is not unusual
for a disclosure to occur during lesson on safety skills. We are asking our students to think about
safety and how to keep themselves safe.
This naturally encourages them to think about their own experiences,
usually in the framework of their rights and appropriate responses. Disclosure may occur during role-plays, if we
ask a student to think of a time when she did not feel safe, or if we ask a
student to tell us what she might do in a specific situation.
Often we ask students
to think about a safe person he can talk to if anything happens. Frequently the teacher or the person leading
the safety skills class is chosen, and needs to provide information to the
student about what types of information would be important to share, the
procedure if information is shared (i.e., mandated reporting), etc.
It is essential
that we respond effectively and immediately when a student discloses. Often a student will disclose using vague
language, which means as adult professionals we need to be aware of the signs
of potential abuse and have a plan on how to respond. We need to make sure that the student feels
heard, and that correct procedures are in place in terms of reporting, talking
with the parents, talking with the student, etc.
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Identifying Abuse or Potential Abuse |
As an educator, you are mandated to report child abuse,
which in
Signs of physical
abuse (CAGO, 2003)
Examples of physical neglect
(CAGO, 2003)
Sexual assault includes:
Sexual exploitation includes:
· Activities related to child pornography and prostitution
Behavioral
Indicators of sexual abuse (CAGO, 2003)
Examples of
emotional maltreatment include emotional abuse and emotional deprivation.
Emotional abuse is
defined as:
·
Excessive
verbal assaults including belittling, screaming, threatening, blaming
·
Constant
family discord
·
Suspected
cases of willful cruelty or unjustifiable punishment
Emotional
deprivation is defined as:
“The deprivation
suffered by children when their parents do not provide the normal experiences
producing feelings of being loved, wanted, secure, and worthy.” (CAGO, 2000)
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Reporting Abuse of Children |
In
Teachers, teacher’s assistants and instructional aides, classified
employees of any public school, counselors, doctors, nurses, social workers,
and psychologists are mandated to report abuse, amongst others.
·
Verbal
reports must be made immediately, with a written report within 36 hours.
·
At CSB,
an incident report is delivered to the Department of Pupil Personnel Services
(DPPS) for immediate perusal, and then DPPS and the staff member report
directly to California Highway Patrol (CHP).
·
If you
are unsure if a situation is “reportable,” you can call Child Protective
Services and anonymously explain the situation to determine if it needs to be
reported.
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Reporting Abuse of Dependent Adults |
A dependent adult is between the ages of 18-64 and unable to protect her
or his rights because of physical or mental limitations.
Many of our students ages 18-22 fit into this category if they are
conserved. “Conserved” means that
another adult, usually a family member, has legal guardianship of the
student.
The following conditions are reportable (Elder Abuse and Dependent Adult Civil
Protection Act, 2004):
·
Physical
abuse
·
Sexual
assault
·
Neglect
·
Abandonment
·
Abduction
·
Isolation
·
Financial
abuse
We have a mandate
to report abuse of these students, similar to our mandate to report child
abuse.
·
At CSB,
an incident report is delivered to the Department of Pupil Personnel Services
(DPPS) for immediate perusal, and then DPPS and the staff member report
directly to CHP.
·
If you
are unsure if a situation is “reportable”, you can call Adult Protective
Services and anonymously explain the situation to determine if it needs to be
reported.
·
Verbal
reports must be made immediately, with a written report within two working
days.
Information about
mandated reporting (CAGO, 2000):
·
If you
are a legally mandated reporter and fail to report, you may be prosecuted.
·
The law
offers immunity for mandated reporters.
·
No
supervisor or administrator may impede or inhibit a report or subject the
reporting person to any sanction.
·
Reports
are confidential and may be disclosed only to specific persons or agencies.
Additional
information can be found on the following website:
www.cattacenter.org.
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Students’ Rights and Responsibilities |
All students have
certain rights, including our students who are blind, visually impaired, or
deaf-blind with or without multiple disabilities. But with all rights come
responsibilities. It is best if the
concepts related to rights and responsibilities are reinforced throughout the
day and pointed out in their natural contexts.
It is also recommended that the concepts of rights and responsibilities
be pointed out in a wide variety of situations, such as “the rights of blind
people crossing a street,” “the responsibility of having a long cane,” or “the
responsibilities of having a pet.” Some
students may not have the true concepts of “rights” or “responsibilities,” but
they may be able to demonstrate aspects of these concepts.
Our students have
the right to:
Our students have
the responsibility to:
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Collinsworth, M. (2001) Project
Blind Ambition. [On-line]. Available.
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David,
Wendy, Kollmar, Kerry & McCall, Scott. (1998). Safe without sight: Crime
prevention and self-defense strategies for people who are blind.
Elder Abuse and Dependent Adult Civil Protection Act. (2004) [On-line]. Available: http://www.marystroube.com/elderabuse2004.html.
Milian, Madeline & Erin, Jane.
(2001). Diversity and Visual Impairment.
Moss, Kate & Blaha, Robbie (2001). Introduction to sexuality education for individuals who are deaf-blind and significantly developmentally delayed. Available: http://www.tr.wou.edu/dblink.
Ponton, Lynne. (1997). The romance of risk: Why teenagers
do the things they do.
Turnbull, A & Turnbull, H. R..
(1986). Families, professionals and exceptionality: A special partnership.
Crime and Violence Prevention Center
California Attorney General’s Office. (2003) Child Abuse: Educator’s
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Crime and Violence Prevention Center California Attorney General’s Office. (2000). Child Abuse Prevention Handbook, [On-line]. Available: http://caag.state.ca.us.
CHAPTER 2: How To Use and Modify this
Curriculum
Frances
Dibble,
· How to Use This Curriculum
· Teaching Methods
· Strategies for Teaching
Students with Visual Impairments
· Adapting the Curriculum for
Young Students
· Sample Modified Lesson
· Adapting the Curriculum for
Students with Cognitive Disabilities
· Sample Modified Lesson
· Adapting the Curriculum for
English Language Learners
· Sample Modified Lesson
· Blank Assessment Form
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How to Use this Curriculum |
This curriculum is divided into five units. Each unit contains multiple pre and post tests and lesson plans.
Each unit starts with assessment pre tests and post tests. The pre tests are to be administered before beginning an educational unit in order to determine each student’s understanding of the concepts to be taught.
These pre and post tests should be administered individually to each student. Individual administration ensures that the data you collect accurately reflects each student’s individual needs. For instance, if you administer the assessments as a group, it is possible that only one student will answer the questions, and the others may indicate agreement without truly understanding.
The pre and post tests can be used to determine individual strengths and needs in the area of safety, and may also be useful tools in creating and measuring IEP goals and benchmarks.
The lesson plans
included in this curriculum are general lesson
plans. Adapt and build upon the lessons
to make them appropriate for each individual.
While some students need black-and-white responses, others can learn to
be more flexible and sophisticated in dealing with the public.
The lesson plans in
each unit complement each other. While
they may be introduced out of sequence, remember that they reinforce and build
upon concepts introduced in earlier units and lessons. Therefore, you should review each unit before
choosing which lessons to teach. In some
cases, it may be best to teach the whole unit, and in others, it may be more
appropriate to pick and choose based on the need areas indicated on the pre
test.
Each lesson
contains objectives, discussion topics and questions, and sample
activities. The discussion topics
introduce the content to be taught. The
sample activities reinforce those concepts and can be used in several ways.
First they can reinforce
discussion during the initial lesson.
For example, after teaching about what items should be brought when
traveling in the community, an initial activity may include making a list in
the classroom. Second, they can be used
separately to help generalize the skills learned in different settings. In this example, the students would bring
those items when they go out in the community.
Third, they can be used to test to see if concepts are remembered over
time. The teacher could do a spot check
a week or two later to see if the student brings those items without prompting.
While each lesson
includes sample activities, keep in mind that these are models of how to create
your own activities individualized for each student’s needs. Use your own ideas to build upon the existing
activities and to create additional ones that are fun and relevant for each
student.
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Teaching Methods |
The following
guidelines will assist in developing a meaningful and supportive learning
environment for our students.
Physical
Environment/Structure
Emotional
Environment
·
Consider
each student’s cognitive level, emotional maturity, and previous experiences
when presenting the material.
Phrasing/Terminology
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How to Adapt this Curriculum |
This section begins
with a brief discussion of some general teaching strategies to use when working
with students with visual impairments.
Then it describes how to adapt the content and form of this curriculum
to better meet the needs of a) young students, b) students with cognitive
disabilities, and c) English language learners (ELL). It also includes samples of modified lessons
adapted to fit the needs of the students described above.
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Strategies
for Teaching Students with Visual Impairments |
This curriculum was
designed to meet the needs of students with visual impairments and multiple
disabilities. Strategies to use when
working with students with visual impairments include the following:
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Adapting
the Curriculum for Young Students |
Young students
often learn best from familiar teachers in a familiar setting. Keep in mind that young students are still
developing language, concept, and academic skills. Formal discussion is less effective than
play-based fun activities. Here are some
strategies to use when teaching young students.
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Sample Modified Lesson: Teaching Young Students |
The preschool
classroom teacher adapted the information to make it age-appropriate for a
class of five young students with visual impairments and multiple
disabilities.
Lesson Topic:
Fitting the People
in Our World into Categories (Chapter 3, Lesson 2)
The teacher created
a large foldout poster board with a “home” side and a “school” side. She made tactile dolls to represent family
members and school staff.
The students were
given time to explore and ask questions about the dolls. After the teacher and the student identified
each doll, the student was asked, “Where does ________ belong? At home or at
school? “ The student was then asked to
put the doll on either the home or school side of the poster board. If the student was unable to identify where
the doll belonged, or misplaced it on the board, further questions were
asked. For example, when the classroom
aide doll was put in the home category, the teacher asked, “Does Debby eat
dinner with you at home, or do you eat lunch with her at school?”
This game was
reinforced during morning meetings. The
teacher asked the class, “Is John here at school today?” After John answered or was prompted to
answer, the teacher then said, “Yes, John is at school today with his teacher
and his classmates.” The teacher then
asked, “Is Mary at school today?” If Mary was absent, the teacher would say,
“No, Mary is not at school. She is at home with her mom and dad.”
Note that the
teacher used the following methods to simplify both the lesson and the pre and
post tests: 1) picked one concept from the lesson and simplified it, 2)
provided forced answer choices rather than open-ended questions, 3) gave
concrete and specific examples, and 4) asked clarifying questions if the
student did not correctly answer the questions the first time.
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Adapting
the Curriculum for Students with Cognitive Disabilities |
Many of the
accommodations used for teaching young students are also helpful when teaching
students with multiple disabilities. In
addition to the teaching considerations listed above, students with cognitive
disabilities benefit from additional teaching modifications, including:
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Sample
Modified Lesson: Teaching Students
with Cognitive Disabilities |
The following
lesson was adapted by a classroom teacher of a functional skills classroom
consisting of four teenage students with cognitive disabilities and visual
impairments.
Lesson Topics:
In order to match
the learning styles of the students in this class these lessons were combined
into a unit. Each week had a different
focus. During a daily morning meeting
the students and staff talked about each topic and did some role-plays. Throughout the day the staff members related
the lesson topic to classroom activities.
The lessons were closely related to weekly experiences the students were
already familiar with.
For example, during
morning meeting students role-played how to answer a door (not just opening the
door when someone knocks, but remembering to ask, “Who is it?”). The discussion also covered why it is
important to keep the door locked, and why it is important not to talk with
strangers. The skills from this lesson were reinforced throughout the school
day by keeping the classroom door locked, so that students had to practice
asking who is at the door before opening it.
The next topic was
public and private places. The students
did not understand the concepts of public and private, so they were introduced
over time. The class explored different
places in the school campus, the classroom, and the community throughout the
week. In each location students
identified and shared clues that let them know if it was public or private
space. The class discussed their experiences during the following morning
meeting. The students were then told
where they would be going during the day and were asked to identify if they are
public or private places.
The last topic was
community safety skills. Topics covered
included what you need to remember to bring with you before going in the
community. The class previewed the topic
in morning meeting. During the weekly
trip in the community the staff members and students talked about what they
brought and why. The next day the
students talked about what they did in the community and what they did to stay
safe.
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Adapting
the Curriculum for English Language Learners |
Many of the same
strategies used with young students and students with cognitive disabilities
can be used with students who are English Language Learners (ELL). It is important to recognize that many ELL
students do not have the same needs and learning issues as students with
cognitive disabilities. However they do
benefit from some of the same strategies to help them to break down and process
the words and concepts being used. Keep
in mind the specific learning needs of your student: you might be working with
an ELL gifted student, or you might be teaching an ELL student who also has
cognitive disabilities.
Specific strategies
for working with ELL students include the following (Fanta, 2002):
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Sample
Modified Lesson: Teaching Students who are English Language Learners |
The following
lesson was adapted by an early elementary classroom teacher for an ELL student
with a visual impairment.
Lesson Topic:
People in Our Lives
(Chapter 3, Lesson 1)
The teacher
discussed the difference between strangers and helping people in the
classroom. He asked the students to
repeat the words stranger and helper, and briefly described them using specific
examples. For example, all of the staff
members in the room were named as helpers.
He then asked, “Who is a helper here in the classroom?”
The student
responded with a one-word answer, “Mary.”
The classroom teacher responded to her communication attempt by saying,
“Yes, Mary is a helper.” The student repeated,
“Mary is a helper.”
The class then took
a trip on a bus to a grocery store. The
classroom staff labeled the bus driver and the customer service people as
helpers, and the other people on the bus and in line at the grocery store as
strangers. The student was encouraged to
repeat the words. She was then asked
clarifying questions, like, “The cashier is going to help us. Helping us is her job. Is the cashier a helping person?”
After the trip the
teacher checked for comprehension by asking, “Who were the helping people in
the grocery store?” and “Who were the strangers in the grocery store?” If the student struggled with answering, the
teacher asked her peer to help by answering and explaining why. He then asked the ELL student to repeat the
correct answer and explain why that was the answer.
Throughout the day,
every day, the student was encouraged to identify helpers and strangers. The vocabulary was used in a variety of
settings. For example, when crossing a
parking lot the teacher said, “Everyone needs to walk next to a helper
now. Who is your helper, Angela?”
Fanta, Jane Nemmer,
(2002) Accomodations and
Modifications for English Language Learners. Chapter 8. Illinois State Board of Education
[On-line] Available: http://www.isbe.state.il.us/spec-ed/PDF/BMPreface.pdf.
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CHAPTER 3: PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES
· Lesson 1: Types of People in the World
· Lesson 2: Fitting the People in Our
World into Categories
· Lesson 3: People in the Community
PRE TEST/POST TEST ASSESSMENT
1: PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES
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1. Are your parents family members? |
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2. Are the people you live with at home family members? |
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4. Is your teacher a family member or a helper? |
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5. Name two family members. |
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7. Name two helping people. |
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8. Are your aunts and uncles family members or helping people? |
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9. Are your family members always nice to you? |
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10. Name a family member you can trust to help you and talk with you. |
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PRE TEST/POST TEST ASSESSMENT
2: PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES
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1. Name two friends. |
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2. Name two ways you know someone is a good friend. |
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3. Is it OK for a friendly stranger to know personal things about you? |
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4. Is it OK for a friend to know personal things about you? |
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5. Whom is it OK to give your phone number to, a friend or a stranger? |
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7. What category does your teacher fit into? |
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8. Whom can you trust more, a friend or an acquaintance? |
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3: PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES
John
is a student at CSB. In the dorm he has a roommate and many friends. His best
friend is named Ben. He also has a
counselor, Fred, who helps him in the dorm. Every weekend he goes home and
spends time with his parents and his brother, Sam. John does many fun
activities during the weekend. Sometimes he goes to the park with his brother.
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2. In this story,
is Fred a family member or a helping person? |
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3. In this story,
name someone who is a family member to John. |
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4. Is it OK for
John to go to the park with his brother, Sam?
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5. Is Fred a
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6. Is Ben a
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7. How are Ben
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8. How are Fred
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10. Why is it OK
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PRE TEST/POST TEST ASSESSMENT 4: PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES
Jennifer lives with her grandmother. She likes to hang out with her friends Rachel
and Sarah. Last weekend, Jennifer went
to Rachel’s house. Rachel’s cousin was
visiting from
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2. Is Jennifer’s grandmother a family member or a
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3. Are there any helping people in this story? |
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4. Would it be OK for Jennifer to give her phone
number to Sarah? Why? |
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5. Is Rachel’s cousin a friend, a stranger, or an
acquaintance? Why? |
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6. Who in this story is a stranger to Jennifer? |
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7. Is it OK for Jennifer to say hello to the
waitress? Why? |
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8. Is it OK for Jennifer to give the waitress her
phone number? Why? |
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9. Was it OK for Jennifer to go out to dinner
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10. Who in this story is a family member to
Rachel? |
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1. (Classroom teacher) is a friend or a helping person? |
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2. The cashier at McDonald’s fits best into which category: helping person, friend, or stranger? |
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3. (Dorm Counselor) is an acquaintance or a helping person? |
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4. (Name of friend) is a family member, a friend, or an acquaintance? |
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5. The UPS deliveryman is an acquaintance, a friend, or a stranger? |
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6. Your aunt _______is a friend or a family member? |
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7. Your bus driver is a friend, a stranger, or an acquaintance? |
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8. Your classmate ___________ is a helping person, a stranger, or a friend? |
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9. Do you give personal information to a stranger? Why or why not? |
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7: PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES
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1. Which one is OK to hug, your mom or the waitress? |
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2. Which person is it OK to get in the car with, a helping person or an acquaintance? |
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3. Which person is it OK to give your address to, your friend or a stranger? |
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4. Name one person you could go to for help if you were really sad about something. |
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5. Which person is it OK to share a meal with, a friend or an acquaintance? |
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6. Is it OK for an acquaintance to brush your hair? |
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8. Is it OK to kiss the cheek of a family member? |
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Lesson
1: People
in the World
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Objective |
1) Students will define and identify the
different categories of people in their lives, including Family
Member/Relative, Friend, Acquaintance, Helping Person, Friendly Stranger and
Uh-oh Stranger.
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Discussion Topics |
1) We are going to talk about the different
kinds of people in our lives. During the
day we see and interact with many people, but we act differently towards people
depending on how well we know them, whom they are, and what role they play in
our lives. One way we can keep ourselves
safe is by figuring out whom the different people in our lives are, and how
best to interact with them.
2) We are going to talk about the people in our
lives and decide if they are family members or relatives, friends, helping
people, acquaintances, or strangers (Paige, Wright, & Schaefer, 1991).
3) Family Member/Relative:
a. A person or people with whom you live
b. Person or people who are related to you
c. Examples: mother, father, sisters, brothers,
grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins
d. Talk about the fact that we consider some
family members closer to us than others.
For instance, a mother and a cousin are both family members, but we are
typically closer to our mother than to a cousin. If this is confusing to your student, you may
want to consider splitting this category into “Close Family Members or
Relatives” and “Other Family Members or Relatives.”
e. Although family members are usually friendly, and they are people we share information with, and generally trust, they are considered family members or relatives, rather than friends.
4) Friend:
a.
Person or people with whom you like to spend time
b.
You trust
c.
You treat her nicely and she treats you nicely.
d.
Knows different things about you
e.
Close in age
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A person you plan to see again
g. Friendships can vary in closeness. We might have a best friend, a friend in the class or dorm, or a friend in the neighborhood or from summer camp.
5) Helping Person/Helper:
a. Knows the student’s name, and possibly other
identifying information, such as age or classroom teacher
b. Student may see this person on a regular
basis.
c. Student does not hang out with the person
outside of the specific environment (during the weekend, on vacations).
d. Person helps student in a routine way.
e. Different levels and environments: The
student may see some helpers, like a teacher, every day. Other helpers, like a dentist or doctor, the
student may only see occasionally.
f.
Helpers
are often people who are older and whom you trust.
g. A trusted person can help the student decide
if the student should be alone with the helper or not (i.e., a parent may go
into the doctor’s office with the student, but the student can be alone with a
teacher he knows).
6) Acquaintance:
a. Someone student may see sometimes or often,
but might not know her name, or much about her
b. Student has less interaction with this
person than a helper.
c. Person does not help student in a routine
way (every day or most days).
d. Student does not hang out with person
outside of the specific environment (during the weekend, on vacations, at each
other’s houses).
e. Student might say “hello” to person, “How
are you?” etc.
f.
Examples:
person who mows the lawn at CSB, a cashier the student sees regularly and might
say “hi” to.
a. Person whom the student has never seen
before, or if has seen, has not interacted with or met
b. Person student does not know
c. Person who a trusted person has not
introduced you to
d. Person who might be friendly or helpful and
engage in brief conversation (e.g., “hello,” “have a nice day”), but then
leaves
e. Person who may ask if you need help, but
goes away when you say “no”
f.
Person
who does not make you feel uncomfortable or does not give you the “uh-oh”
feeling
g. Students may be able to make the distinction
between a stranger and another type of person they currently know, if they are
reminded to think about the first time they met a person, when the person was a
stranger. That person may now be a helper
or a friend.
8) “Uh-oh” Stranger:
a. Person whom the student has never seen
before, or if has seen, has not interacted with or met
b. Person student does not know
c. Person whom a trusted person has not
introduced you to
d. Person who might be friendly or helpful and
engage in brief conversation (e.g., “hello,” “have a nice day”), and does not
leave, or continues to talk with you or ask personal questions
e. Person who may ask if you need help, and
does not go away or continues to ask, even after you have said “no”
f.
Person
who makes you feel uncomfortable or who gives you the “uh-oh” feeling
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1) What are some similarities and differences
between a friendly stranger and an “uh-oh” stranger?
a. Both are people you do not know.
b. A friendly stranger may say “hello” or ask
if you need help, but she will not hang around you for long. An “uh-oh”
stranger may hang around and continue to ask you questions. You may feel
uncomfortable with this person, and wish she would leave.
2) Describe a helping person.
a. A helping person is usually older.
b. A helping person knows our name and we know
his name.
c. We usually see the helping person fairly
often at school, in the dorm, at our worksite, etc.
d. A helping person helps us in a particular
situation, like in the dorm or the classroom.
3) In what ways are a helping person and a
stranger the same and different?
a. A helping person is someone we know, who has
been introduced to us by a trusted adult. A stranger may be helpful to us, but
we do not know her, and we have not been introduced to her by a trusted person.
b. Both a helping person and a stranger may be
helpful. For instance, a stranger at the store may help us find an item, but he
is still a stranger.
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Sample Activities |
1) Activity Name: is a real friend? (This activity is adapted
from a curriculum by
Materials Needed:
None needed; however, you may want to record what the students say to transfer
later to braille, large print, tactile, etc.
Description of Activity: Have students talk about characteristics of a friend. What do they look for in a friend, and what
do they do as a friend to someone else?
The following is a partial list of characteristics of a real
friend. Introduce a couple from the
list, and then see if students can come up with their own. Try to state each characteristic, if your
students do not.
A real friend is…
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Someone
you have known for a long time
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Someone
who has never hurt you
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Someone
who does not pressure you to have sex
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Someone
who tells you the truth
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Someone
who says nice things about you
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Someone
who does not call you mean names
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Someone
who shares ideas and possessions with you
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Someone
who has never stolen something from you
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Someone
you trust
· Someone who does not ask you to do something that could get you into trouble
2) Activity Name: Practice
Materials Needed:
Paper to record answers, which may later be put into braille/large
print/tactile representation for students
Description of Activity: Have each student say in his own words and with examples, what the
different groups are. Continue
explaining if students do not appear to understand.
3) Activity Name: Stories
Materials Needed:
Paper to record answers, which may later be put into braille/large
print/tactile representation for students
Description of Activity: Have students tell stories from
their lives about each person or category on the list. Then have students talk about characters in
TV, movies, or books, and which categories they would fit into based on other
characters.
4) Activity Name: Incidental learning
Materials Needed:
None
Description of Activity: In the community, talk with the student about what you are doing, or after the trip, what you just did. You can make this into a story. Then have the student tell you which categories people in the “story” fit into. For instance, a story might be: you are at the mall with your counselor and who else? Is the counselor a friend or a helping person? Is (name of other student also on the trip) a friend or a stranger, etc.
Lesson 2
Fitting the People in Our World into Categories
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1) Students will identify the categories into
which people in their lives fit.
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1) Now that we have figured out the differences
between the people in our lives-- family members, relatives, friends, helping
people, acquaintances, and strangers-- we are going to practice putting all of
the people in our lives in these categories.
2) Explain that some people may fit into more
than one category, or can change categories over time. For instance, a father is primarily a
relative or family member, but he can also help us. A new student may be a stranger when he first
comes to CSB, but after awhile, may become a friend or an acquaintance. Or a new dorm counselor is a stranger when
first met, but may become a helping person.
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1) Think of a student who came to CSB recently,
or while you were a student here. Was that person a friend or a stranger? What
is that person now?
a. In the beginning, that person was a
stranger. You did not know her. Someone you trusted, like your teacher or dorm
counselor, probably introduced you to her, so she felt like a friendly
stranger, or part of your community. Now that you know this person, she may be
a close friend, a friend, a classmate, etc.
b. Even though a safe person introduced you to
the new student, you had to get to know her before she became a friend. One way
you might have done this was by hanging out with her, asking her questions
about her life, telling her about you, etc.
2) Your mother may help you do something. Why
do we consider your mom a family member rather than a helping person?
a. Even though family members often help us, we
consider them family members rather than helping people. A helping person is
someone who helps us do something as part of his or her job. For instance, a
teacher is a helping person because his job is to teach you. A doctor is a
helping person because her job is to make sure you are healthy.
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Materials Needed: Paper to write down answers, which may later
be put into braille/large print/tactile representation
Description of Activity: Ask the students to figure out which list the following people fit into. Use a separate piece of large paper for each category.
Mother/stepmother
Father/stepfather
Foster parent
Brother/sister
Stepbrother/stepsister
Aunt/uncle
Grandparents
Cousin
Sitter
Best friend
Friend
Neighbor
Friend of parent
Parent of friend
Brother of friend
Friend of sister/brother
Supervisor at work
Classmate
Co-worker
Teachers
Assistants
Doctor
Dentist
Dorm counselor
Principal
Secretary
Dining hall worker
O&M teacher
Other school staff
Volunteers
Children of teacher
CSB bus driver
City bus driver
Paratransit driver
Store clerk
Others
2) Activity Name: People/Categories
Materials Needed:
Paper for each student with the different categories listed
Description of Activity: Have student try to fit each person in his
life into
one primary category.
3) Activity Name: Scenarios
Materials Needed: Sample scenarios (see examples below)
Description of Activity: Tell a scenario and have the student say which category the person in
the story fits into. Examples:
a. You are waiting for paratransit to pick you
up at CSB. The driver, Craig, is someone
who has picked you up once before. He
remembers your name and says hello. Is
Craig a friend, a stranger, an acquaintance, a relative, or a helping person?
b. You are at the store at the checkout
counter. The person behind the counter
is very friendly and says hello and asks how you are doing. She chats with you about the weather,
etc. Is she a friend, a friendly
stranger, an “uh-oh” stranger, an acquaintance, a relative, or a helping
person?
c. You and your family go to your cousin’s
house for dinner. You have spent a lot
of time with your cousin. Your cousin
has invited his friend Sam to dinner too.
Is Sam a friend, a stranger, an acquaintance, a relative, or a helping
person?
d. You go to the doctor’s office for your
annual visit. Is the doctor your friend,
a stranger, an acquaintance, a relative, or a helping person?
e. You are in your room at CSB. Your roommate’s family comes to visit. Your
roommate’s brother comes into the room to say hello. Is your roommate’s brother a friend, a
stranger, an acquaintance, a relative, or a helping person?
f.
You go
to a restaurant that you go to often. You happen to have the same waitress you
have had numerous times in the past. You
both recognize each other and ask how each other is doing, etc. Is the waitress a friend, a stranger, an
acquaintance, a relative, or a helping person?
g. Your cousin and her boyfriend come over to
visit. Your cousin has been with her
boyfriend for three years and you have met him on numerous occasions and have
hung out with both of them together. Is
your cousin’s boyfriend a friend, a stranger, an acquaintance, a relative, or a
helping person?
h. You go to your job site. You have worked at the job site since the
beginning of the year. The manager of the job site is named Jeff. You see Jeff every week at the job site. Is Jeff a friend, a stranger, an
acquaintance, a relative, or a helping person?
i.
You
work with a job supervisor twice a week.
You have worked with this person for two years and she knows a lot about
your strengths and needs. You call her
by her first name. Is your job
supervisor a friend, a stranger, an acquaintance, a relative, or a helping
person?
3) Activity Name: What do you do with different people? (This
activity is adapted from Casparian & Goldfard, 2000)
Materials Needed: Paper to write down answers, which may
later be put into braille/large
print/tactile representation
Description of Activity: Read different activities and have students decide with whom they
would be comfortable doing the activities.
Explain to the students that there may be some activities they may not
feel comfortable doing with anyone, or some activities they may feel
comfortable doing with more than one type of person. Help the students explain why this may be so,
and give examples. Explain to the
students that it is OK to refuse to do an activity with someone if it feels
uncomfortable or if they get an “uh-oh” feeling.
Examples:
Laugh together
Sleep in the same room
Kiss
Sleep in the same bed
Comfort each other
Touch someone’s private parts
Hug
Share meals together
Play together
Work on projects together
Cry in front of
Be naked in front of
Bathe or shower together
Brush each other’s hair
Give or receive a back rub
Sit on each other’s lap
Tell secrets
Shop for clothes
Get in a car with
Play sports
Go on a long car trip
Watch television
Hold hands
Leave CSB with
Go to a store with
4) Activity Name: Relationship circles (This is a
simplified version of an exercise taken from the Circles Program, published by
James Stanfield and Co. This version is taken from: Simpson, Katherine, 1990).
Materials Needed:
Graphic in braille/large print or tactile representations, one per person
Description of Activity: Depending on your students, this can be done in print, large print,
braille, or tactile representation (see Figure 1). To modify this activity for
students who do not read, use tactile materials. For instance, make circles out of different
pieces of cloth so students can associate the feel of the cloth (soft and
comforting is for close family members) with the different categories. You could also use tactile objects similar to
those used in a calendar box.
a. ME: Write ME in
print or braille or use a tactile representation.
Each person decides on who fits into the other circles, and each person
is responsible for choosing how to interact with the people in her or his life.
b. FAMILY/SPECIAL FRIENDS-HUG CIRCLE:
Write this in braille or print or use tactile representation. Also do
the same with specific names or people in each student’s life.
The people in this circle are the only people that we hug.
These are people that we share personal thoughts with, share personal
feelings with, trust, want to be together with, talk to when upset.
c. WAVE AND HANDSHAKE CIRCLE:
Print or write this in braille or use a tactile representation. Students should
also put in examples of people in their life.
1.
This
circle is for people in your lives. These are people you are around once in a
while or even a lot, but they are people you would not hug.
2.
These
are people you are friendly with and you feel comfortable with, but you do not
share very personal information with.
3.
Examples
include: People at CSB you know by name, etc., but they are not your close
friends, helpers, friends of family members, etc.
d. STRANGERS: Print
or braille Stranger or use tactile representation. Add examples.
1.
Strangers
are people we do not know, or people we have not been introduced to by someone
we know and trust.
2.
Everywhere
we go we see people we do not know.
3.
Some
strangers may not make us feel uncomfortable and may be polite and friendly,
but it is important that we do not hang around them anyway (friendly
strangers).
4.
Some
strangers make us feel uncomfortable. When we feel uncomfortable with a
stranger, we should move away very quickly (“uh-oh” strangers).
e. SAFE PEOPLE: Safe people are people that we can talk to if we feel unsafe or scared. It is important to have a list of safe people at home and at school or at work. Safe people may be family members or friends, or they may be helpers. Some safe people fit into the HUG circle and some fit into the WAVE AND HANDSHAKE CIRCLE.
1. Students should put names of safe people in their lives, either in braille, print, or tactile representation.
Figure 1: (James Stanfield and Co., Circles Level One as adapted by Simpson, 1990)

Lesson 3: People in
the Community
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1) Students will use identification skills and
appropriate greetings with people in the community.
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1) We have learned a lot about the difference
between a friend, a family member, a stranger, a helping person, and an
acquaintance. In order to become really
good at this, we are going to do some practice in the community as well as in
the classrooms and the dorms.
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1) What are some things you might talk about
with a cashier?
a. You might say “hello” or “How are you?”
b. You might talk about the weather.
c. You might talk about an item from the store,
or an item you are purchasing.
2) What are some things you would not talk
about with a cashier?
a. You would not tell the cashier personal
information such as where you live, your phone number, etc.
b. You would not ask the cashier personal
questions about his life.
3) Name some people that are OK to hug.
a. Family members
b. Friends
c. Helping people once in a while, such as at
the beginning or end of the school year
4) Name some people that are not OK to hug.
a. A friendly stranger
b. An “uh-oh” stranger
c. An acquaintance
5) Name some people with whom it is OK to shake
hands.
a. Strangers after you have been introduced to
them.
b. An acquaintance, such as a parent of a
friend.
c. A friend, if you want to greet her but do
not want to hug her.
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1) Activity Name: Role-plays
Materials Needed:
Familiar or safe person like teacher or dorm staff
Description of Activity: In the classroom or dorm, have students practice what they might say
or how they might interact with different people.
a. For instance, do a role-play about how a
student might interact with a cashier (e.g., say hello, don’t give out personal
information, etc.).
b. At the store, remind the students of the
role-play and have them engage with the cashier, while giving them corrective
feedback.
2) Activity Name: Individual lists
Materials Needed: Paper to write down answers, which may
later be put into braille/large
print/tactile representation
Description of Activity:
Each student can make his own list.
During the day at school and in the community give other examples, and
have the students identify the categories the people with whom they interact
fit into.
a. For example, before a trip, talk about the
different people the students might meet (e.g., a cashier, a bus driver,
another shopper, etc.). Help the
students put each person in the proper category.
b. During the trip, ask students to determine
which category people they meet fit into, and if it is appropriate to say hi, shake
hands, hug, etc., each person, depending on which category they fit into.
c. Remind the students of the people back in
the classroom or dorm and add them to the list.
3) Activity Name: Specific scenarios
Materials Needed: Specific scenarios from different students
Description of Activity: Using real people or situations present
students with scenarios and have them identify the people. Have students tell other students about a
particular scenario they were involved with and have other students put the people
in the appropriate categories.
4) Activity Name: Off-campus assignments
Materials Needed: Community destination
Description of Activity: Before going out, tell students they need
to identify a stranger, helping person, friend, etc., whom they have contact
with during the trip.
a.
During
the trip, ask questions to determine how well the student is doing. For example, if at a store, ask the student,
“That person next to us is also buying shampoo. Is he a friend, a stranger, or
a helping person?”
b.
If the
student answers with “A stranger,” test her further by saying, “Really? But he is so nice, and he is also buying
shampoo. Are you sure he is a stranger?” “Is he a friendly stranger or an “uh-oh”
stranger?”
c.
When
the students return to the dorm or classroom, have them talk with the other
students. They can identify the people
with whom they interacted and their reasoning.
They can also talk about how each person is greeted, etc.
d.
Always provide corrective feedback and
reinforcement during outings. For instance,
if a student says hello to the cashier, but does not tell personal information,
reinforce him by saying, “Nice job. It’s fine to say hi to the cashier. Even though she is helping us, she’s a
stranger, so you did a good job by not telling her personal information or
touching her”.
REFERENCES
Casparian, Elizabeth & Goldfard,
Eva. (2000). Our whole lives: Sexuality education grades 4-6.
Paige, Carolyn, Wright, Sarah &
Schaefer, Melanie, (1991). The project action curriculum: Sexual assault
awareness for people with disabilities.
Simpson, Katherine (editor), (1990). The
Family Education Program: A Curriculum and Training Manual for teaching
Sexuality, Self-Esteem, and Abuse Prevention to Students with Developmental and
Learning Disabilities,
James Stanfield and Company Publishing, Circles: Intimacy and Relationships, retrieved on June 2005, www.stanfield.com/sexed.html as adapted in The Family Education Program: A Curriculum and Training Manual for teaching Sexuality, Self-Esteem, and Abuse Prevention to Students with Developmental and Learning Disabilities , Simpson, Katherine, (editor), 1990, Concord, CA: Planned Parenthood: Shasta-Diablo.
CHAPTER 4:
TOUCHING
Frances Dibble,
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1.
Give a few reasons why it is good to be able to talk about touch and touching
in a CSB Safety Class.
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Name some parts of the body that are generally safe to be touched and under
what circumstances.
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Name the parts on your body that you should not allow anyone to touch.
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What kind of touch can you expect from a friend?
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Name helpers who need to touch in order to help (dentists, doctors...)
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Give an example of touch that might give you a feeling of discomfort or the
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Tell how you like to be touched when someone is helping you to explore an
object.
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What would you say/do if someone touched you in a way that made you feel
uncomfortable?
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Give a few examples of unfriendly touches.
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Someone you do not know took your arm and told you to go with her. What would you do?
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1. If you are going to touch or hug a friend,
should you ask her first?
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Name a type of touch you use your hands with?
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Name a type of touch you use your arms with?
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4. How might a friend touch you to show he is
happy?
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What should you say if you do not want someone to touch you?
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Is it OK to hug a stranger? Why or why not?
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Is it OK to hug a friend? Why or why not?
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8. Tell me an example of an “uh-oh” or unsafe
touch.
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Tell me an example of a safe or OK touch.
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10. What should you do if you ask a friend if
you can give her a hug, and she says no?
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1) Students will be able to give examples of different kinds of touch that people experience.
2) Students will identify that they need to give permission to be touched and that they can state their preferences for how they want to be touched.
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Discussion Topics |
1) Think for a few minutes about the different kinds of
touch we have experienced from others.
2) Let’s name different types of touch on the parts of
the body. I will give some examples, and
I want you to come up with examples, too.
a.
Shaking hands
b.
A tap on the
shoulder
c.
A hug
d.
Kiss on the
cheek
e.
A kick
f.
A pinch on your
bottom
g.
A push on your
back
h. A push on your stomach
3) People can use the same body part to touch others in
many different ways. For instance, we
use hands to shake hands, hit, give high fives, pinch, and tap. We use our arms to hug, to go human guide,
and to hit.
4) You can use touch to learn about the world around
you. You can also use touch to show how
you feel. For example, some people show
that they are excited by giving a high five.
5) Sometimes people touch each other by accident. You might brush shoulders as you walk by
someone or tap someone’s ankle with your cane.
6) Touching can be used to teach people. Lots of helping people might touch you when
showing you or teaching you something.
For example, an O&M (Orientation and Mobility) instructor might
touch your hand to show you how to hold a long cane correctly. A teacher may take your hands and guide them
to touch a tactile map or other object.
7) Remember, even though helping people might use touch
to help you, it is your body. You have
the right to decide who touches you and how.
Usually the teacher will tell you before she touches you. If she doesn’t, you have the right to say,
“Please tell me before you touch me.
That way I won’t be scared.” You
also have the right to say, “Please let me do this by myself. I will ask for help if I need it.”
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1) Give me examples of how people touch each other.
2) Give me an example of how someone might touch you to
show that she is happy.
a.
Clap on the back
b.
Hug
c.
High five
d.
Make up your own
3) List some possible ways someone might use his hand to
touch you.
4) What can you say if you don’t want someone to help
you by touching you?
d.
Please let me do
this by myself.
e.
I’ll tell you if
I need help.
f.
Make up your own
phrase.
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1) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed:
None
Description of Activity: Have one student role-play a
teacher helping a student learn about an object. Have the teacher start to take the student’s
hand and have the student practice different ways to say calmly and clearly
that help is not needed.
Lesson
2: People in Our Lives Who Touch Us
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1) Students will be able to state that it is OK
for a family member to hug them, but not OK for a stranger to hug them.
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1) You have named the people who are safe or trusted
people in your
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Discussion Questions |
1) Think of the people in the
a. Close family members
b. Relatives
c. Friends
d. Acquaintances
e. Stranger
2) Think of the people in the
a. Close family members
b. Relatives
c. Friends
d. Acquaintances
e. Stranger
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Sample Activities |
The following chart can be used with sample activities 1 and 2. Tell students that each of the examples will be printed/brailled onto a separate card and used in the next lesson and throughout the personal safety curriculum.
hugging squeezing
really tight shaking
a hand
holding hands patting
someone’s back tickling
pushing biting scratching
brushing hair walking
w/sighted guide hitting
slapping bumping
someone rubbing
someone’s
put arm around shoulder gently guiding w/soft pressure back
pulling hair brushing
teeth doctor’s
exam
spanking kissing
on cheek wrestling/roughhousing
kissing on lips pressing
breasts onto another patting a hand
helping to cut food hand-over-hand
to learn new skill
kicking under the table grabbing
a wrist wiping
a mouth
breathing on face pinching nudging
w/hard
pressure
1) Activity Name: Safe touch vs. unsafe touch
with a family member
Materials Needed:
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Braille
writer and marker
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3x5
note cards
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Examples
of Touching to Stimulate Student Responses chart
Description of Activity: Read or have the students read the examples
of touch on the chart. Discuss each item
on the list and define any unfamiliar words or phrases. Ask each student if it is OK for a family
member to touch him in that way. Would
it make them feel safe or unsafe? Ask
them if it gives them the “uh-oh” feeling, and describe that feeling as being
unsafe.
2) Activity Name: Safe touch vs. unsafe touch
with other kinds of people
Materials Needed:
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Braille
writer and marker
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3x5
note cards
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Examples
of Touching to Stimulate Student Responses chart
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1) Students will label kinds of touch as being
safe or unsafe.
2) Students will describe the feelings they
have when they are safe and when they are not safe and have the “uh-oh”
feeling.
3) Students will identify a trusted adult they
can talk to if they have an “uh-oh” feeling.
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1) Some touch can give you a feeling that
people care very much about you. This
happens after you have done a good job, perhaps when a close family member
gives you a warm hug and strokes your head and tells you how proud he is of
you. This gives you a good feeling of
comfort and safety.
2) Some touch can give you a warning that there
is danger nearby. For instance, a friend
might pull you back if he sees you ready to step on broken glass or fall off a
curb. He does not want you to get
hurt. His touch might alarm you. It might feel abrupt, but it is helpful and
keeps you safe.
3) Sometimes it happens that a stranger or
people you know touch you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable. Their touch might be too strong, or it may
have lasted longer than you like. Or,
the person may have touched a part of your body that is private. This gives you an uncomfortable or unsafe
feeling. Sometimes we call this an “uh
oh” feeling.
4) Sometimes touch can be confusing. For example, it may be quite different if a
person pats another on the shoulder compared to a pat on the bottom.
5) Here is a short list of all the ways touch
can make you feel: comfortable, supported, cared for, funny, squeamish, icky,
angry, safe, unsafe, and uncomfortable.
6) If someone touches you in a way that makes
you feel unsafe and gives you the “uh-oh” feeling, it is important to get help
from a trusted adult.
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1) Let’s talk about ways we are touched and how
certain touches make us feel. For example,
how do these kinds of touch make you feel?
a. Your mom hugs you and says she is proud of
you.
b. Someone pushes your hand away when you are
looking for a fork on the table.
c. Someone kicks you.
d. A stranger comes up and pats you on the
bottom.
Note to teacher: If
students state that they do not know how they feel, tell them that it is
alright and that this lesson and others in the safety classes will help them to
identify their feelings.
2) Give an example of how touch can be used to
warn you of danger.
a. Hand on the shoulder to stop you from
stepping in a hole.
b. Pulling on your arm to pull you away from a
moving car.
c. Etc.
3) Let’s talk about whom you could go to for
help if someone’s touch made you feel unsafe or uncomfortable. Give an example of someone you could talk to
at home, at school, and at the dorm. Say
the person’s name.
a. Home-parent, uncles, group home supervisor,
etc.
b. School-teacher, psychologist, principal,
etc.
c. Dorm-counselors
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1) Activity Name: Sorting out our feelings
Materials Needed:
Three different textures of fabric or paper—a slightly rough fabric, a complex
textured fabric, and a soft fabric such as satin or velvet—enough length to
tack to 3x5” cards, and a stack of 3x5” cards.
You can use the cards referenced in Lesson 2, or read aloud examples
from the chart in Lesson 2.
Description of Activity: Show students three textured
panels and the stack of cards. Tell them
that there is a reason you brought a rough, very textured, and soft piece of
fabric. Explain that decisions will be
made with each card and that each card will be posted on one of the three
pieces of fabric. Each texture
represents a feeling—one is for a safe feeling, one is for an unsafe feeling,
and the other is for a neutral, or OK, feeling.
Now that they have touched the fabric pieces, see if they can tell which
piece of fabric might represent an unsafe feeling (burlap or something rough),
a safe feeling (satin, silk, or something very smooth and soft) and a neutral
feeling (cotton).
Note to Teacher: Some students may not understand the concept
of neutral; therefore, categorize all experiences as either safe or unsafe.
Review the kinds of
safe, unsafe, or neutral fabric. Choose
a format for card selection. It could be
random, such as shuffling a deck, or more pre-determined, whereby students are
given the card with their own contribution.
Whatever the format, be sure to create a predictable pattern. You can also read aloud examples from the
chart.
Sort the cards/examples into three piles represented by the different
fabrics/feelings. When all of the cards
are placed in one of the three categories, congratulate the students for their
hard work. It takes courage to give examples
that may be painful to think about.
Congratulations.
2) Activity Name: Touch and safety
Materials Needed: See list below.
Description of Activity: Tell students to think about or
hold their copy of their
Note to Teacher:
This activity can be a good opportunity to reinforce the idea that regardless
of the relationship the student has, she has the right to give or withhold
permission to be touched.
3)
Activity
Name: Incidental learning
or discussion
Materials Needed:
See list below.
Description of Activity: Look out for
opportunities to talk about people, touch, and feelings. If you see any of the kinds of touch
described below, point them out and talk about who is touching, why, and how it
feels. You can also use this list to
discuss hypothetical kinds of touch your student might encounter.
a. A stranger pulling or pushing the student’s
arm in an attempt help him find the first step of the bus.
b.
The bus
driver helping the student place money in the coin box.
c.
The student
pulling up her shirt to ask that her bra strap be fixed.
d.
Student
asking for help with her jacket zipper or fanny pack
e. Classmate slaps peer’s knee and laughs at a
joke.
f.
The man
drove up next to you when you were walking to your house, and you knew how to
get there. He rolled down the window and
asked you if you wanted help.
g. The teenager telling you about an empty seat
near the driver.
h. The store clerk grabbing the girl’s wrist in
an attempt to help her find the restroom.
i.
The man
who passed you on the sidewalk and muttered curse words under his breath as he
passed.
j.
The
woman in the store who introduced herself and told you that she wanted to
volunteer at your school.
k. The homeless person wrapped up in a sleeping
bag calls out when your student’s cane tapped him.
Paige, Carolyn, Wright, Sarah & Schaefer, Melanie,
(1991). The project action curriculum: Sexual assault awareness for people
with disabilities. Seattle,
Simpson, Katherine (editor), (1990). The Family Education
Program: A Curriculum and Training Manual for teaching Sexuality, Self-Esteem,
and Abuse Prevention to Students with Developmental and Learning Disabilities.
CHAPTER 5: PUBLIC AND PRIVATE
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If you are getting dressed in your bedroom and someone knocks on the door, what
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Why is the bathroom at the bowling alley a public space? (You cannot always
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Lesson 1: Public and Private Space
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1) A public place is a place (Simpson, 1990)
a. Where there are many people
b. Where people can see or hear you
c. Where people can come in or out without anyone’s permission
2) Ask the students questions such as: “Are there many people in this room? Can more people come in or out without knocking? Can they see and hear you? Then is this a public place? Why is this a public place?” (Simpson, 1990)
3) A private place is (Simpson, 1990)
a. Where you are all alone with the door closed
b. Where no one can see you
c. Where no one can come in or out without your permission or without knocking first.
4) We do not have a lot of private places. Let’s talk about some places that are private. (Simpson, 1990)
a. The bathroom at home with the door closed.
b. Your bedroom at home or school, if you do not share it with anyone else.
5) Some of you may have a private place at home or in the dorm where you can be alone, close the door, and no one will see you. Does anyone know where that place is? (bedroom, if the student does not share it with anyone else) If your bedroom door is open, is it a private or public space? It is public because others can see you or come in or out. What do you need to do to make the bedroom private space? You can close the door.
6) What about the bathroom at the bowling alley or the pizza shop? Is that a private place? Why? (You cannot always close the door and be alone and people can come and go.)
7) Explain that everyone has the right to privacy. This means that if someone wants to be alone in the bathroom, she deserves the right to be alone. Sometimes we may want privacy, but it is not possible. For instance, if we are in a public space, than we need to know that we will not have privacy. Sometimes if you need privacy, you can excuse yourself and go to a private place, like your bedroom, if you do not have a roommate.
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1) If your door is shut, is it OK for someone to walk in?
a. No, it is important for the person to knock first and ask if he can come into the room.
2) What if someone doesn’t want company?
b. If you knock on a friend’s door and ask if you may enter, you must respect her privacy if she says no.
4) What if a family member or helping person walks into the bathroom while you are taking a shower?
a. It is best if that person knocks first and asks for permission. It is OK to tell the person that you want some privacy.
b. Explain that some students need help with bathing, etc., and it is OK to get help from a person you feel safe with in a private space.
5) When do you close the shades/blinds/curtains?
a. If shades or blinds are left open, then a bathroom or bedroom becomes a public place because people can see in. You must close your shades before undressing or dressing, or any other time you want privacy.
6) What makes the bathroom at home a private place?
a. You can be alone with the door closed and no one can see you.
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1) Activity Name: Close the blinds.
Materials Needed: Classroom or dorm blinds that can be opened and closed
Description of Activity: Show each student how the blinds feel when they are closed (no space between the material) and open (space). Have each student practice turning the rod that opens and closes the blinds. Remind students that there are different types of blinds in different houses, etc., and explain the differences.
2) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: Access to a closed door
Description of Activity: The purpose of this role-play is to give students practice in:
a. knocking on a closed door
b. asking for and waiting for permission to enter
c. what to do if told not to enter
d. how to ask for the name of the person knocking on the door
e. how to give or not give that person permission to enter
Role-play knocking on the door and then have students practice and receive feedback.
For older students, or students who are independent at showering, dressing, etc., a role-play can be demonstrated to ask for privacy in the bathroom or bedroom while showering or dressing.
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1) Students will identify, define, and name the private body parts.
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1) We just spoke about public and private space. Can someone explain what public space is? What is private space? We are going to talk about our body now, and different parts, some of which are considered private parts. Private parts are the parts of your body that are covered up when you wear a bathing suit. They are the parts of the body that we do not show in a public place (Simpson, 1990).
2) We have many body parts that we and others can see. For instance, our fingers, hands, nose, eyes, and knees are all body parts that are OK to show in public space; they are not private parts. When you go swimming, your bathing suit does not cover your hands or knees. That is OK. The bathing suit does not need to cover these body parts because they are not private parts. It’s OK to show them in public.
3) Men and women and girls and boys have some of the same body parts and some different body parts. For instance, boys and girls and men and women all have knees, hands, heads, arms, etc. Most of the private body parts are different for a boy and girl or man and woman.
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1) Who is in charge of my body?
a. I AM.
b. In general, the only person who can touch our private parts is ourselves. Sometimes helping people in our lives need to touch our private parts to make sure we are healthy, or to help us keep clean. For instance, a mother may help her daughter in the shower or in changing a pad during menstruation.
c. It is important to know that even your mother or other close helping people need to ask you if it is OK for them to help you if it means touching your private body parts. Even if it is a close family member, you have the right to ask him not to touch you. A doctor who needs to examine your body and make sure it is healthy will also have to touch your private parts. Your parent or helping person should tell you that you are going to see a doctor before the appointment, so you know what to expect. Just like making sure other parts of our body are healthy, we need to keep our private parts healthy too, and that means we sometimes need to have a doctor look at them and touch them.
2) Name some parts of your body that are not private body parts.
a. Arms
b. Legs
c. Hands
d. Nose
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1) Activity Name: Learning private body parts
Materials Needed: Life-size anatomically correct dolls (Teach-A-Bodies, www.teach-a-bodies.com)
Description of Activity: Using the life-size dolls, teach the body parts: penis, testicles, vagina, breasts, and buttocks. Start with either the male or female doll. Explain that it is OK to touch the private parts of the dolls because they are dolls and not real people. It would not be OK to touch the private parts of a real person or to have a real person undress in the classroom. Have each student feel each part on the doll. Do the same thing with the other doll.
2) Activity Name: Practicing private body parts
Materials Needed: Life-size or other anatomically correct dolls
Description of Activity: Using the dolls, place either the male or female doll in front of a student. Ask the student to feel the doll and to tell if the doll is male or female. Ask the student to name the private body parts that told her or him the gender of the doll.
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1) Students will correctly identify which clothing is used for private and non-private parts, and where it is appropriate to wear certain clothing.
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1) We wear clothing for a number of reasons. One reasons is that clothing protects our body from heat, cold, or dirt. Another reason is that it covers our private body parts.
2) We all wear some type of clothing every day. Some of the clothing covers body parts that are not private, like our arms or legs. Other clothing covers our private parts, like our underwear or a bathing suit.
3) Explain that even when we are wearing clothing that is OK to wear in public, we may still need to think about what we are doing. For instance:
a. Changing clothing, adjusting underclothes, etc., needs to be done in a private space. Teach students how to identify which clothes they can change and adjust in public vs. private space. Teach students how to politely excuse themselves if they need to adjust their clothing.
b. Teach female students how to sit if wearing a skirt.
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1) Is it OK to wear just your underwear to school?
a. Explain that there are rules about what we can and cannot wear in certain places (e.g., school, a job, a store, a church, etc.). Part of growing up is being responsible for knowing and following these rules.
2) Is it OK to wear pajamas to school?
a. Explain that there are rules about what we can and cannot wear in certain places (e.g., school, a job, a store, a church, etc.). Remember that you are responsible for following the rules.
3) Is it OK for a baby to go around the house in its underwear?
4) Is it OK for a 12-year-old to go around the house in his underwear?
a. It is OK for a baby to go around in underwear, but it is not OK for an older child to walk around in just his underwear. People who are older are expected to act like grown-ups, whereas babies are very young and are not expected to behave like people who are “grown up.”
5) Is it OK to adjust your bra strap in public?
a. No,
if you need to adjust your bra strap, it is better to excuse yourself and go to
a private place.
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1) Activity Name: Brainstorm public and private clothing
Materials Needed: Paper to write down answers, which may later be put into braille/large print/tactile representation
Description of Activity: Have students brainstorm public and
private clothing and write a list.
2) Activity Name: Is it OK?
Materials Needed: Different pieces of clothing
Description of Activity: Ask students the following questions using the pieces of clothing as examples.
Is it OK to answer your door in your underwear? Why or why not?
Is it OK to wear pajamas to the movies? Why or why not?
Is it OK to get dressed in the living room, after your shower or bath? Why or why not?
Is it OK to wear your bathing suit to the pool? Why or why not?
Is it OK to wear your sweater to school? Why or why not?
Is it OK to wear your bathing suit to school? Why or why not?
Is it OK to wear your pants and shorts to school? Why or why not?
Is it OK to wear you pajamas at home? Why or why not?
3) Activity Name: Incidental learning in the community
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Before going out in the community, have the students discuss what clothes are OK to wear. In the community talk about the different clothes people are wearing (e.g., “The cashier is wearing a dress. Is that OK? The bus driver is wearing a shirt and pants, is that OK? The customer is trying on a bathing suit in the dressing room. Is that OK?”). Further test the students by asking, “If the customer walked out into the store wearing the bathing suit, would that be OK?”
4) Activity Name: Incidental learning
Materials Needed: Either a skirt or dress that the student is wearing, or a skirt or dress that the student can put on over her clothes
Description of Activity: Take an opportunity to have your female students practice how to sit when they are wearing a skirt or a dress. You can also provide them with a skirt to put on for practice.
REFERENCES
Simpson,
Katherine (editor). (1990). The Family Education Program: A Curriculum and
Training Manual for Teaching Sexuality, Self-Esteem, and Abuse Prevention to
Students with Developmental and Learning Disabilities.
CHAPTER 6:
SAFETY IN THE COMMUNITY
Maya Delgado Greenberg and
Jo Anne Tanaka-Libbon
· Lesson 4: Keeping Your Money Safe
· Lesson 5: Looking Confident
· Lesson
6: I’m Lost, Now What?
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Lesson 7: Stranger Danger
· Lesson
8: Safety on Public Transportation
· Lesson 10: When Do You Call 9-1-1?
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Lesson 11:
Responding to an Attack
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1) Students will describe when, where, and with
whom it is safe to travel.
2) Students will describe what they should wear
when going out into the community.
3) Students will describe what materials they
should take along when going into the community.
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1) Being smart and planning ahead is the best
way to stay safe when you are traveling in the community. You can do things that will help you to be
safer even before you leave your house.
This means you are in control of staying safe.
Planning
when, where, and with whom you travel can help keep you safe. Remember, it is better to travel in pairs
when possible. Travel in well-lit areas
with lots of other people around. It is
always safer to go out in the community during the day. Before you even leave the house, tell others
where you will be and when you think that you will be back.
2) An emergency contact person can be a friend,
family member, or trusted helper who can come and help you if you are lost or
hurt. It is important to pick a good
emergency contact person and carry her name and number with you, so you are
prepared if you need help.
3) It is a good idea to have your cane for
traveling and identification purposes (if you use a cane), a working cell phone
(if you have access to it and know how to use it), money to use for public
phone, and a watch. That way, you are
prepared to travel safely, be on time, and contact people if you have an
emergency. You should also carry your ID
and the number of an emergency contact person.
4) Plan what you are going to wear. If you think it might rain, bring a
raincoat. If it is sunny, wear light
clothing, use sunscreen, and bring a hat and sunglasses to protect your
face. If you are going out at night,
wear light-colored clothing to make yourself more visible.
5) You need to plan ahead for the kind of
transportation you are using. If you are
using paratransit type transportation, you need to plan ahead and make a
reservation. The day of your travel, be
sure to know your pick up time. If using
the public bus, be familiar with the schedule and times.
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1) When is the safest time of day to go in the
community?
a. During the day is the best time. It is always safer to be outside during the
day.
2) Where is the safest place to be in the
community?
a. In a well-lit place with lots of other
people around.
3) Is it safer to travel by myself or with
someone else?
a. It is safer to travel with a friend, family
member, or helper. If you have to go out
at night, or go in an isolated place, it is always a good idea to have someone
with you. Bad people who might want to
bother you or hurt you look for people who are alone. Having someone with you helps keep you safe.
4) Do you know the phone number of your
counselor/teacher/staff person/family member, etc., who could help you if you
got lost or hurt?
a. It might be hard to remember a phone number
if something bad or scary happens. Keep
the name and number of an emergency contact person in your wallet so you can
call him if you need help. It would also
inform police officers whom to call if you need help or are hurt (TCRC, 2001).
5) What else can I do to be safe?
a. Tell someone at home where you are going and
when you will be back. That way if
something bad happens, and you are late, then someone can come and find you and
help you. Plan the kind of
transportation you are using and know when you are leaving and returning.
6) What should you bring with you when you go
out into the community?
a. Always bring a wallet, change for a pay
phone, an ID, your cane, and emergency contact numbers.
7) What should you wear when you go out into
the community?
a. If it is cool, bring warm clothing.
b. If it might rain, bring an umbrella or
raincoat.
c. If it is hot, wear light clothing and bring
a hat or glasses. A hat with a brim
and/or sunglasses protects your face from the sun. Wear sunscreen on sunny days so you don’t get
sunburned. You may want to bring a
bottle of water with you so you don’t get thirsty and sick.
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1) Activity Name: Incidental learning
Materials Needed: Community destination
Description of Activity: While in the community with the
student, discuss the areas you are in.
Are they dark or well-lit?
Crowded or isolated? Would it be
a safe place to hang out in during the day?
At night?
2) Activity Name: Planning before you go out
Materials Needed: None
Description
of Activity: List all the things you need to bring with you when you go out
(e.g., money, cell phone or change for pay phone, ID, wallet, cane, maybe bus
tickets, fanny pack or bag, appropriate clothing for the weather, and emergency
contact information).
3) Activity Name:
Planning before you go out
Materials Needed: Pen or brailler and paper. For students who do not read, use tactile
icons to represent the objects listed above.
Description of Activity: Using the verbal list generated
above, write a checklist of all the items you need to bring when you go in the
community. For students who do not read
print or braille, you can create a board with tactile icons or real objects to
review as a class and post by the door.
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1) Students will be able to explain why it is
important to have their ID with them and whom it is safe to show their ID to.
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1) It
is really important a) to have an ID (identification) card that states who you
are and b) to have with you the name and number of an emergency contact person
with you when you go out in the community.
Some people forget their IDs at home.
It is a bad idea to leave your ID at home.
2) If there is a problem and you need to get
help from the police, the police will need to see your ID.
3) If
you cannot remember the emergency contact person’s phone number, have it
written and placed in a safe place in your wallet.
4) There
are many different kinds of IDs. The
most important kind of ID is one you can get from the DMV. It usually looks a lot like a driver’s
license with a photograph of you, and it is sometimes called a “state issued
ID.” Other kinds of IDs include school
IDs, work IDs, and transportation IDs.
Some IDs contain personal information including phone number or address,
and others may just have your name or other information.
5) Your ID has your personal information on
it. You should only show your ID to
certain helping people who have a good reason to see it. It is OK to show your ID to police. Sometimes it is OK to show your ID to a bank
teller, the doctor, or a store clerk if you are paying with a check or credit
card. Nobody else needs to see your
state issued ID. Your ID has personal
information, like your address. That
information is private. It is a bad idea
to show people you don’t know your ID.
If a stranger reads your ID and knows where you live, that person could
go to your home and try to hurt or rob you.
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1) What is an ID?
a. It
is an identification card that has your name and usually your picture on it.
2) Why it is important to have your ID with you
every time you leave home?
a. If you get hurt, the police will want to see
your ID in order to help you. Police
officers can look at your ID to see where you live and that helps them to know
whom to call to come help you.
3) What if I forget my ID at home, or if my ID
is locked up someplace safe?
a. You need to have your ID with you every time
you go out into the community. Tell your
family or staff that you need it in case there is an emergency.
4) Whom is it OK to show your ID to?
a. It is OK to show your ID to police.
b. Sometimes it is OK to show your ID to a bank
teller, the doctor, or a store clerk if you are paying with a check or credit
card.
c. Nobody else needs to see your ID, because it
has your private personal information on it.
A bad stranger who sees your ID might use your personal information to
follow you home and try to hurt or rob you.
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Should I show my ID to a bus driver or paratransit driver?
a. A bus driver or paratransit driver has the
right to ask to see your transportation ID.
This kind of ID proves that you have the right to pay a discounted fare
on the bus and have the right to use paratransit. It is also called a “discount card.”
b. You do not need to show your state issued ID
to a bus driver or paratransit driver.
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1) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: ID and a familiar or safe person
Description of Activity:
Students show ID to a safe person upon request, such as a teaching staff
or parent.
2) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: Emergency contact information and ID
Description of Activity:
Upon request by a safe person, the students are to give/show ID and
paper with the emergency contact person’s name, relationship, and phone number
to call if hurt or lost.
3) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: ID
Description of Activity: Student asks care provider/staff
person for her ID before leaving the house.
Staff says no, that there isn’t time to get it because they are going to
be late. Coach the student to ask again
and explain why she needs it. After the
role-play discuss the importance of being assertive.
4) Activity Name:
Incidental learning
Materials Needed:
Community destination with store clerks and/or transportation
personnel nearby
Description
of Activity: When in the community, ask student to identify
people whom it might be OK to show her ID to. Possible right answers include a police
officer, bank teller, or bus driver.
Lesson 3: Your Personal
Information is Private
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1) Students will demonstrate during a role-play
a non-confrontational refusal to answer a stranger who asks for personal
information.
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1) When you are traveling in the community you
might need to talk to people you don’t know.
Sometimes you need to get help from someone you don’t know. You need to be careful not to show or tell
personal information to strangers, even if they are trying to help you. Sometimes strangers will want to talk to you
or help you when you do not need help.
2) There are ways to resist unwanted help and
to keep your personal information private.
The important things to remember are to say “NO. GO AWAY.
LEAVE ME ALONE,” if someone is bothering you. You can go into a business or get help from a
bus driver. They are helpers and they
can help you if someone is bothering you.
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1) Should you give personal information, like your address, to
strangers?
a. No, if you tell someone your name and
address, then that person could go to your house and try to hurt or rob you.
2) Should you tell a stranger where you are going?
a.
No, because that person could try to follow you in order to hurt or rob
you.
3) What if it is a person you see at the store
every week? Doesn’t that make that
person a friend?
a. Just because you see a stranger every week
does not mean that this person is your friend or even an acquaintance. This person is a stranger (for more
information see Chapter 3, lessons 1 and 2).
4) But what if I see this person every
day? She smiles at me and she buys the
same kind of cereal I like at the grocery store. Does that make her a friend or an
acquaintance?
a. You do not know her. She is not your friend or acquaintance.
5) What could you do if a stranger asks you for
personal information, like your name?
a. You could try ignoring the stranger or just
walking away. Or you can say something
like, “I don’t answer personal questions.”
6) If a stranger keeps bothering you and asking
personal questions, he is being rude. Do
you have to say nice things to people who are bothering you?
a. No!
You don’t have to be polite if someone is being rude.
7) What can you say if someone keeps bothering
you?
a. You could say, “Leave me alone!” Use confident posture and a loud, firm
voice. Let’s practice saying “LEAVE ME
ALONE!” together in a loud, firm voice.
You can even put out your hand with your palm facing out and fingers up
as you say it, “LEAVE ME ALONE! I
DON’T KNOW YOU!” (TCRC, 2001).
8) What should you do if a stranger is
bothering you?
a. You should get away and get help. Let’s all say that together, “Get away and
get help!” (TCRC, 2001).
9) What
are some other things you could say?
Think for a minute about what you would say to make a stranger leave you
alone.
10) What
if I say, “Hey buddy, leave me alone; I know kung fu!” Is that safe to say, or
dangerous?
a. It is dangerous to say that because you
might make the person angry.
11) What
would be safer?
a. Ignore the stranger.
b. Walk away.
c. Get away and get help.
12) What
if a police officer asks for my personal information? Is it OK to give personal information to a
police officer?
a. Yes, it is OK to give personal information
to a police officer. Police officers are
a special kind of helping people, and they might need your personal information
to help you.
b. If a police officer asks you for personal
information, ask to see police ID to make sure he or she is a real police
officer. The police have a special kind of ID called a badge. Even if you can’t see it, you can still touch
their badge. A badge is a bumpy piece of
metal that is about the size of an ID card.
13) Is it
OK to give personal information to a helper, like a customer service clerk?
a. It is OK to tell the helper your first name.
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1) Activity: Role-play
Materials Needed:
Seat or bench
Description of Activity: Students are sitting at a bus
stop (or airport, on paratransit, in a taxi cab, etc.) when a stranger starts
up a conversation and starts asking personal questions about where the student
works and how much money she makes.
Students will respond that they do not give out personal
information.
2) Activity Name: Incidental learning
Materials Needed:
Community setting
Description of Activity: When the students make contact
with people in
the community, ask them to identify helpers and strangers.
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Objectives |
1) Students will identify that their money is
for their own use.
2) Students will demonstrate where and how they
can safely carry their money when in the community.
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Discussion Topics |
1) Everyone needs money to buy things. People are proud of earning money because
having money gives them the independence to do important things, like buy food,
go to the movies, or pay rent.
2) It is your job to keep your money safe. You can keep your money safe by carrying it
in a safe place, like a fanny pack (also called a waist pack, belt bag, or hip
pack) or in your front pocket. Never
show your money to a stranger.
3) If someone else asks you questions about
your money, you do not have to answer that person. It is even OK to lie and say that you do not
have any money. It is OK to lie if it
keeps you safe (TCRC, 2001).
Note to Teacher: This concept can be confusing to some
students, and may contradict personal moral and religious beliefs. Consider each student’s cognition and
experiences before deciding if you want to teach the idea that it is OK to lie
if it keeps you safe.
4)
You should avoid talking about your money while in
the community, because a dangerous stranger might try to steal it.
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Discussion Questions |
1) Where is the safest place to keep your
money?
a. When you carry money in the community,
always keep it in a wallet. The best
place for your wallet is in your fanny pack or in your front pocket.
b. Keep your fanny pack zipped up tight so your
wallet does not fall out.
2) Why is it a bad idea to let people see your
money or your wallet?
a. If a bad person sees your money, he might
decide to steal it from you.
3) What about if I am in a store or if I need
to pay for the bus? I have to take my
money out then, don’t I?
a. Yes, but you should be ready to put it away
as soon as possible. You should always
organize and fold your money before you go out into the community. That way you can pay quickly and put your
wallet away quickly. That keeps your
money safe.
4) Do you think that it is hard or easy for
someone to steal your wallet?
a. It is hard for someone to steal your wallet
if it is in a fanny pack or front pocket.
b. It is easy for someone to steal your wallet
if it is in your hand or in a back pocket.
5) If a stranger asks you questions about your
money, is it OK to lie?
a. A stranger should never ask you about your
money. Your money belongs to you. Information about your money is private
information. It is OK to tell a
stranger, “I don’t have any money,” even if you have some. It is OK to lie if it keeps you safe.
6) What if I am in the community and my
girlfriend wants to know how much money I have so we can go to a movie? Is it OK to tell her?
a. Sometimes girlfriends and boyfriends or
family members talk about money. But it
is dangerous to talk about money in public.
Someone might hear you and try to steal your money. Information about your money is private, so
only talk about it in private.
b. You could tell your girlfriend, “Let’s talk
about this later, in private.”
7) So now we know that we shouldn’t talk about
our money in the community. So, where is
it safe to talk about money?
a. You should talk about your money in a
private place (for more information on public and private places, see Chapter
5, lesson 1). The safest place to talk
about money is usually at home.
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Sample Activities |
1) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed:
Teacher and student
Description of Activity: Student is waiting for a paratransit pickup and a stranger tries to
strike up a conversation. Student will
not engage in any conversation or give out personal information.
Stranger: “Hi, mind if I join you?
Student responds.
Stranger: “Cool. My name is Sarah,
what about you?”
Student responds.
Stranger: “I am waiting for a ride.
I am having a great day—I just got a raise at my job and I am going to
go shopping to celebrate! I think I’ll
even be able to move into a new apartment!
Isn’t that great?”
Student responds.
Stranger: “I think I have seen
you before at the grocery store. You
work nearby? What kind of money do you
make? Want to go shopping with me?”
Student responds.
2) Activity Name: Demonstration
Materials Needed:
Wallet and two adults
Description of Activity: (adapted from TCRC, 2001, page 67) Teacher demonstrates how it only
takes a second for someone to steal a wallet.
The teacher pulls a wallet out of her pocket and explains to the
students that she is holding the wallet in her hands. Teacher asks, “Is it safe or dangerous for me
to take out my wallet and show my money to people in public?”
Student responds.
Teacher: “How long does it take for someone to steal your wallet?” Before students have the chance to respond,
another teacher grabs the wallet out of her hands and runs out of the room.
Teacher: Explains what happened
to the students and then adds, “It takes one second for someone to steal your
wallet.”
3) Activity Name: Incidental learning
Materials
Needed: Community destination, money, and wallet and/or fanny pack
Description of Activity: Before going into the community, student will place money in fanny
pack or wallet. Student will state why
that is the best place for the money.
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Objectives |
1) Students will demonstrate a confident
posture and gait.
2) Students will demonstrate how to walk at as
quick a pace as possible while using their cane (if applicable).
3) Students will show how to keep head up and
eyes forward and to keep moving when confronted by strangers.
4) Students will demonstrate how to keep wallet
and bags in a safe place.
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Discussion Topics |
1) How do you look when you are walking around
in the community? It is important to
look as strong and confident as possible.
A few strategies for looking confident and strong can make a big
difference.
2) Here are some tips:
a. Walk quickly. Hold onto your cane firmly and move it
smoothly in front of you.
b. Keep your chin up and head facing the
direction you are walking. Do not turn
your head towards strangers.
c. Your wallet should be put in a safe place,
like a fanny pack or your front pocket.
d. Your backpack should be on both
shoulders. If you have a purse, carry it
over the shoulder and hold it close to your body.
e. Know your route or direction. Walk as if you know exactly where you are
going.
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Discussion Questions |
1) Why is it important to look confident and
strong?
a. People pay attention to how you move and
hold your body. If you look confident
and strong, people will be more likely to respect you. If you look weak and scared then bad people
are more likely to pick on you.
2) What can you do to make yourself look
confident and strong?
a. Walk quickly. Keep your head up and eyes facing
forward. Hold onto your cane firmly and
move it with confidence. Do not make eye
contact with strangers. If you do these
things, it makes you look confident and powerful.
3) What else can you do to look strong and
confident?
a. Look prepared and in control. That means not carrying too many things. Hold onto your bags tightly and use a
backpack to carry stuff if possible.
Keep your wallet in a safe place, like a fanny pack or your front
pocket.
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Sample Activities |
1) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed:
Open area to walk in (hallway or sidewalk), wallet, bag or backpack, and cane
(if applicable)
Description of Activity: In a hallway or sidewalk,
student puts wallet safely tucked away.
She is holding bag firmly or has backpack on both shoulders.
Student walks at a brisk pace (within reason for each individual
student). Student should have head up,
eyes facing forward, and cane firmly in hand.
Stranger walks toward student from opposite direction. Approaches student and says, “Hey, how’s it
going?”
Student will ignore stranger or answer briefly while continuing to move
forward, eyes straight ahead. Student
does not slow down.
2) Activity Name: Incidental learning
Materials Needed: Bag
or personal belongings
Description of Activity: While in the community, ask student to
take a moment to evaluate if he appears confident. How is his posture? Eye contact?
Voice? Where are any bags and
personal belongings?
Lesson 6: Uh Oh, I’m Lost, Now What?
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Objective |
1) Students will demonstrate an understanding
of safe people to ask for help if they are lost.
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Discussion Topics |
1) It can be scary to get lost and not know
where you are. Sometimes you need to get
help from someone you don’t know. Even
if you are lost and need someone to help you, you still want to be careful
about showing or telling personal information to strangers.
2) If you are lost, you probably will need help
to get home or to your destination. Go
into a business and ask a clerk, or get help from a bus driver. They are helping people and they can help
you.
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Discussion Questions |
1) How do you know that you are lost or need
help to find someplace?
a. If you don’t recognize where you are, then
you are lost. You need to get help.
2) What should you do if you realize that you
are lost?
a. Stop walking and try to figure out where you
are. Get help from a safe person.
3) Who are safe people to ask for help if you
are lost?
a. Helping people like people who work in a
business or bus drivers are safe people.
b. You can also get help from friends or family
members. You can call your emergency
contact person if you are really stuck and need help.
4) How can you find safe people to ask for
help?
a. Find a nearby store or business.
b. Wait at a bus stop and ask the driver for
directions.
c. Call home for help if you have a cell phone
or are near a pay phone.
5) How can these safe people help you?
a. They can give you verbal directions to get
to your destination.
b. They can give you a guide to your
destination.
c. They can help you find a phone to call home
for help.
6) How should someone guide me to a
destination?
a. You should use proper Human Guide (also
called Sighted Guide) technique. You
might need to show the helper how to do it.
You might need to use the Hines Break technique that your O&M
instructor taught you. (Hines Break is a technique visually impaired people use
to gently pull away from someone who is trying to guide them incorrectly. The visually impaired traveler simultaneously
pulls away from someone who has grabbed her arm and gently grips the guide’s
arm instead.) Tell the guide where you want to go and have the person explain how you
are going to get there.
7) What if someone you don’t know comes up to
you and asks if you need help? What
should you do then?
a. That person is a stranger. If you need assistance crossing the street or
finding a nearby store it is sometimes OK to get directions from a stranger. Be very careful. If the stranger gives you an “uh-oh” feeling,
do not accept her help.
b. If you get a stranger to guide you, ask to
be taken to the nearest store or familiar landmark. Do not go someplace far away with a
stranger. It is always safer to get
directions from a stranger than it is for that person to guide you.
c. Never get into a car with a stranger or be
taken to an isolated place. If a stranger wants you to go someplace that you do
not want to go, say “No, thank you.” Do
not go with the stranger.
d. If a stranger offers you help and you say
“No, thank you,” the stranger should listen.
If a stranger keeps bothering you after you said that you do not need
help, it is OK to say, “Leave me alone!”
You should try to get away from that person.
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Sample Activities |
1) Activity Name: Incidental learning
Materials Needed:
Community destination
Description of Activity: While in the community, identify possible locations (e.g., bus stop,
store, gas station) where it is safe to go for help if you get lost.
2) Activity Name: Incidental learning
Materials Needed:
Community destination in a shopping area
Description of Activity: Help students to identify safe people to ask for help when in the
community. Model how to ask for and
clarify directions.
For example:
You are in the mall, and you need to find the food court. You talk with your student about how you need
help and where you are going to get it.
You go into a store and ask, “Excuse me, where is the food court?”
The clerk responds with something like, “Right over there” and points.
You say, “Which way?”
The clerk answers, “Go out the door and turn left. It is past the escalators.”
You repeat the directions and thank the clerk.
After you find the food court, you talk about what you did and then
role-play with your students.
3) Activity Name: Role-playing
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Practice suggested phrases
(Kaufman & Hoff, n.d.) to use if someone is bothering the student when she
does not want that person’s help. Student
generates own phrases to use.
“Hey, I said get
away from me.”
“Leave me alone.”
“Stop bothering
me.”
“Don’t touch me.”
4) Activity Name: Role-playing use of Hines Break
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Pretend that someone is about
to help you find your destination. The
helper takes the student’s arm and says, “Come with me.”
The student replies, “Excuse me, I would like to take your arm. Let me show you how,” then gently pulls arm
away and takes the helper’s arm at the elbow.
5) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Student pretends to walk into a shop and asks for help from a customer
service person who is helpful and patient.
Student will listen carefully and thank the customer service person.
6) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Student pretends to walks into a shop and asks for help from a customer
service person who is impatient and gives unclear directions. Student will remain calm and repeat request
for help.
7) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Teacher pretends to be a
stranger and walks up to student and offers help, says that he will give him a
ride home. Student will say “No, thank
you.” If stranger is persistent, student
will use confident body language and tell the person to leave him alone.
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Objectives |
1) Students will demonstrate in a role-play
situation how to get away from a stranger who is trying to convince them to go
with him.
2) Students will demonstrate in a role-play
situation how to politely but clearly deflect unwanted attention (e.g., “Excuse
me, do you need any help?” reply with “No, thank you”) and assertively respond
to dangerous attention (“Leave me alone!”).
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Discussion Topics |
1) Most people love to get out of the house and
travel in the community. We often go
places by getting rides from family members, friends, or helping people. It is never OK to get a ride from a stranger
or an acquaintance. Most people know it
is never OK to ask for a ride from a stranger.
You should never ever accept a ride that is offered from a stranger,
even if the person seems really nice.
2) If someone is bothering you while you are in
the community, go into a business or get help from a bus driver. They are helpers and they can help you.
3) If someone is bothering you, get away and
get help. Go to a safe place where there
are lots of people. You do not want to
go someplace isolated, like an alley or an empty parking lot. Go to a nearby store or look for a bus stop
with people there. Other people can help
keep you safe from a dangerous stranger.
Bad people will usually leave you alone if there are lots of people
nearby who can help you.
4) Sometimes strangers will approach you with
unwanted help or to ask personal questions.
Nice strangers will listen to you if you say clearly, “I don’t need
help, thanks” or “I’m busy right now.”
If a stranger keeps bothering you after you are polite, it is OK to
speak up and say, “Leave me alone!” in a clear, loud voice. Use your confident posture.
5) If a stranger bothers you after you refused
help, then GET AWAY and GET HELP!
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Discussion Questions |
1) Who are the people who take you places and
give you rides?
a. Friends, family, and helpers.
2) Should you get into a car with a stranger?
a. Never ever get in a car with a stranger.
What if you have seen the person before and she seemed really nice? What if she offers you a special treat?
b. Sometimes even bad people pretend to be nice
to try and trick you. Never ever get in
a car with a stranger!
3) What can you say or do if a stranger asks
you to get into a car?
a. Ignore the stranger or walk away. You could stand up straight and say, “I am
waiting for someone” or “LEAVE ME ALONE!”
4) What if the stranger keeps following you and
asking or telling you to go with him?
a. Get away and get help! This is a dangerous person who wants to hurt
you. You can call the police or use
9-1-1.
5) Is it safe or dangerous to walk up to cars
with strangers in them?
a. It is dangerous. The stranger might be trying to trick
you. You should never get close to cars
with strangers in them.
6) What if a stranger grabs your arm and tries
to make you get into the car with her/him?
a. Hit and yell and kick! You can hit the stranger with your cane. Hitting is OK to keep you safe. Use the Hines Break that your O&M teacher
taught you to pull your arm away and then push the person away. Get away and get help.
7) Who do you call if someone tries to grab you
and pull you into her car?
a. Run away and call 9-1-1.
8) Who else can you tell?
a. Go into a nearby store or business and ask
for help.
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Sample Activities |
(Warning, some of these role-plays can become
very intense and emotional for students.)
1) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Student is at a bus stop when a stranger who seems nice invites her to
go get something to eat. Student will
refuse to go with the stranger.
2) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: None
3) Activity Name: Incidental learning
Materials Needed:
Community or neighborhood destination
Description of Activity: When asked, students will identify safe places to go for help if a stranger is bothering them. Students will identify isolated places as unsafe places to go if a stranger is bothering them.
4) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Person asks for help looking for a lost pet. Student will refuse to go with the
person. Discuss after the role-play that
it is OK to refuse to help someone whom you don’t know.
5) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Someone approaches student and
says there is an emergency (parent is sick, house is on fire, there was an
accident, etc.). Student should not go
away with the stranger.
6) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: School psychologist tells
student that his father is in the hospital and that his mother is on the way to
pick him up. Psychologist offers to walk
with him to the office to wait for his mother.
Student will demonstrate an understanding that it is OK to go with the
psychologist because the psychologist is a familiar person and a helper, not a
stranger.
7) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Student is approached and asked, “What time is it?” by a stranger. Student can say, “Sorry, I don’t know” and keep walking. Note to Teacher: Some students will have the judgment and skills to decide if the situation is safe and judge if they want to answer or not.
Lesson 8: Safety on Public
Transportation
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Objectives |
1) Students will identify the bus driver as a
helping person who can help them solve problems on the bus.
2) Students will respond safely during a
role-play situation in which a stranger is bothering them on a bus.
3) Students will demonstrate during a role-play
situation what kinds of personal information they should give to a
transportation provider.
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Discussion Topics |
1) Bus
stops can be tough places. Strangers
might be waiting at the same bus stop as you.
You need to have money or your bus pass out and be ready to show your ID
to the driver if he asks to see it. It
is important to keep your wallet and money close to your body and in a safe
place.
2) Sometimes strangers want to ask personal
questions, ask for money or favors, and sometimes people will even offer you a
ride. Even if a stranger seems nice, you
should not talk to a stranger.
3) Remember, the bus driver is a helping
person. The front of the bus near the
driver is the safest and best place to be.
In the front the bus driver can see and hear you. This will help the driver to remember to
announce your stop.
4) If you use paratransit, the driver may
confirm your name and your address, and the driver might ask for your transportation
discount ID. Always ask the driver,
“Who are you here to pick up?” before you say your name. That way you are sure that it is a real
paratransit driver who is here to pick you up.
It is OK to answer some questions because the driver needs to know these
things to do a good job. The driver is a helper.
5) You do not want to tell the driver other
kinds of personal information about things like how old you are, how much money
you make, and whether you live alone.
You do not want to show the driver your state issued ID. That kind of personal information does not
help the driver. The driver should not
ask you about these things. They are
private. You should not share that
information.
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Discussion Questions |
1) Should you give personal information to
strangers?
a. No, you should never give personal
information to strangers.
2) What if you see the same person on the bus
everyday? Is it OK to give her personal
information? Is that person a stranger
or a friend?
a. That person is a stranger. It is not OK to give her personal
information.
3) What if someone asks you for money for a bus
fare? Is it OK for someone to ask you
for money?
a. No, your money belongs to you. You should say “no” firmly.
4) Is it OK to lie to someone who is asking you
for money for bus fare?
a. It is OK to lie if the lie helps keep you
safe.
b. A
stranger should not ask you for money.
Your money is for you.
5) What should you do if a stranger keeps
asking you for money while you are waiting at the bus stop?
a. You could say in a firm voice, “Leave me
alone!” Just get away and get
help. Let’s say that together, “GET
AWAY and GET HELP!”
6) Where is the safest place to sit on the bus
(David et al., 1998)?
a. Near the driver. The driver can help you if someone tries to
bother you.
b. The driver has the right to kick people off
the bus if they cause problems. That is
why it’s important to tell the bus driver if someone is bothering you.
c. Bus drivers can help you. It’s their job. Try to sit near the driver.
7) What if the seats up front are being used by
other people?
a. You have a right to sit in the front of the
bus. You need to sit near the driver so
you can hear when your stop is announced.
You can tell the driver, “Excuse me, I am visually impaired. Will you please help me get a seat up front?”
8) What would you do if someone is mean to you
on the bus? What if someone calls you
names?
a. You could ignore that person.
b. You could tell the bus driver.
c. You could move to another seat closer to the
bus driver.
9) Should you respond to the person by calling
that person names or throwing something back?
a. No, he could get mad and hurt you. Get away and get help. You can do that by moving closer to the bus
driver and asking the driver for help.
10) Do
you know why it is important to stay awake and alert on the bus?
a. You could miss your stop if you are not
paying attention.
b. Someone might steal your stuff if you are
asleep or not paying attention.
11) What
can you do to keep your bag/backpack safe on the bus?
a. Sit close to the driver.
b. Use your confident posture and always stay
awake.
c. Keep your bag on your lap.
12) What
if a paratransit driver asks me for my name and wants to see my ID?
a. It is OK to tell the paratransit driver some
personal information after you make sure that the driver is here for you. Ask the driver, “Who are you here to pick
up?” If the driver knows your name then
you know that the driver is here for you.
b. It is OK to confirm your name with the
paratransit driver AFTER the driver says your name. It is OK to show the driver your
transportation discount ID if the driver asks for it.
13) What
if the driver asks me personal questions?
For example, what if the driver asks me if I am dating anyone?
a. You can say, “I’m sorry, I do not answer
personal questions.” The driver does not
need to know that kind of personal information about you.
b. That kind of information is private. You share information about your life with
family, friends, and sometimes trusted helpers.
You do not need to answer that question.
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Sample Activities |
1) Activity Name: Incidental learning
Materials Needed:
Bus route to follow, bus passes or money, materials needed to travel in
community (e.g., cane, ID, wallet, watch, bus schedule information, change or
cell phone, number of emergency contact person)
Description of Activity: Before student gets on the bus, student describes where they should
sit and why.
2) Activity Name:
Role-play
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Student is at a bus stop when a
stranger asks for money or bus tickets.
Student will say “no” assertively.
3) Activity Name:
Role-play
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Student gets on the bus and all
of the reserved seats in the front are full.
Student will ask the driver for a seat up front.
3) Activity Name: Role-play.
Note to teacher:
This role-play can be very upsetting for some students.
Materials Needed: Soft
objects, such as pieces of paper
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Objectives |
1) Students will identify themselves as the owner
of their money.
2) During a role-play situation, students will
ignore or say “no” if someone asks them for money.
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Discussion Topics |
1) Sometime strangers in the community will ask
you for money. Some people will say that
they need your money for food or bus fare.
Sometimes people will ask for money for a charity. It’s sometimes hard to say “no” to
panhandlers who stop you on the street and ask you for money.
2) Your money is yours, and it is for you to
spend on yourself. It is not for
strangers, even if you feel sorry for them.
If someone else asks you questions about your money, you do not have to
answer them. Did you know that it is OK
to lie to keep yourself safe? You can
lie and say that you do not have any money.
3) If someone tries to ask you for money, you
can ignore her or say “no.” If the
person keeps bothering you, say, “No!
Leave me alone!”
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Discussion Questions |
1) Who
does your money belong to?
a. My money is mine. It is not for other people; it is for me to
spend on myself.
2) If someone asks you for money, and you have
money in your pocket, is it OK to lie to him?
a. Yes, it is OK to lie if the lie helps keep
you safe.
3) Sometimes people have sad stories about why
they really need money. It makes me feel
so sorry for them that they are in such trouble. Do you think that we should do the nice thing
and give them money?
a. No. My money is mine, and your money is for
you. There are lots of people who have
problems with money. It is not your job
to help them.
b. There are lots of people someone could go to
for help if he has a problem, like a doctor or a police officer. It is not your job to help him (TCRC, 2001).
c. When
you have a tough time, you don’t ask strangers for help. You ask friends, family, or helping people.
4) What can you say or do to a stranger who
asks for money?
a. It is hard to know what to do because most
people were taught that it is important to be nice to everyone (David et al.,
1998). You don’t have to talk to or be
nice to strangers. You could ignore that person or walk away.
5) What if someone keeps bothering you and
asking for money?
a.
You can
say, “NO! Go away; leave me alone.”
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Sample Activities |
1) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials
Needed: None
Description of Activity: Student is waiting at a bus stop when a
stranger comes and sits down and starts talking about his problems and why he
needs money. Student will refuse to talk
to the stranger and will get away from the stranger if he is persistent.
2) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Well-dressed stranger outside
the grocery store asks for a donation to a local charity. Student will ignore her or say “no,” keep
walking. If the stranger is persistent,
student will say, “NO, leave me alone!” and get away by going into the
store and asking for help. Discuss the
importance of using a loud, firm tone of voice.
3) Activity Name: Incidental learning
Materials Needed:
Community destination
Description of Activity: If student encounters a panhandler or solicitor in the community, model a polite refusal such as “No, sorry” or “No, thank you.” If the solicitor is aggressive, state firmly, “No, leave me alone” and walk away. Discuss with student what you did and why. Encourage student to speak up the next time he encounters that situation. Also discuss the importance of using a loud, firm tone of voice.
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Objectives |
1) Students will be able to name 9-1-1 as the
number to call if they are in danger.
2) Students will demonstrate understanding that
they do not call 9-1-1 if someone is rude to them or if there was an emergency
yesterday.
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Discussion Topics |
1) Sometimes we have serious problems called
“emergencies,” and we need help from a police officer. Sometimes we have smaller problems that other
people like friends, family, or helping people can help us with, and we do not
need help from the police.
2) What can you do if you have an
emergency? You can call 9-1-1.
Did you know that you don’t need any money to call 9-1-1 from any
phone? You can also use a cell phone to
call 9-1-1. Someone in a store can help
you to call 9-1-1.
3) You should call 9-1-1 only if you are in
danger right now. If you have a problem,
but you are not in danger, you can call your emergency contact person for help (for
more information see Chapter 6, Lesson 2).
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Discussion Questions |
1) What
is an example of an emergency?
a.
Someone
is trying to hurt you or tried to pull you inside a car. If there is a fire. If someone is seriously hurt and needs a
doctor immediately. If someone tries to
rob you. These are all examples of
something dangerous that is happening right now.
2) What number do you call in an emergency?
a.
9-1-1
3) Who will come and help me if I call 9-1-1?
a.
You
will get the police, the fire department, and an ambulance if you call 9-1-1.
4) When you use a phone to call 9-1-1, how much
does it cost?
a.
It is
free to call 9-1-1 at a pay phone. You
do not need any money.
5) What if I am too scared to talk on the
phone?
a.
You can
call 9-1-1 anyway on a pay phone or a landline.
Dial the number and leave the phone off the hook so the 9-1-1 operator
can hear what is happening. If you can’t
talk into the phone then the operator will send two police officers to check on
you and make sure that you are OK. If
you call from a pay phone or a land line, the second you call, your address
appears on a computer and the operator knows where to send the police officer
(9-1-1 for Kids Inc., 2001).
6) If I call on a cell phone and am too scared
to talk, will the operator be able to send a police officer to help me?
a.
No,
this does not work with a cell phone.
Only a pay phone or a land line.
b.
Calling
9-1-1 from a cell phone will connect you to the California Highway Patrol. The operator does not know your phone number
and address. You need to know where you
are and to be able to explain it to the operator.
7) What should I say when I call 9-1-1?
a.
The
operator will ask many questions. Try to
answer as clearly and calmly as you can.
The operator will ask things like your name, what the emergency is, who
is with you, and the address you are at right now (Newman, 1985).
b.
Be sure
to tell the operator that you are visually impaired. That information helps the operator to ask
the right questions.
8) When should I call the regular number for
the police or my emergency contact person instead of 9-1-1?
a.
If
someone tried to hurt or rob you a few days ago. If you are lost but not in danger. Like we said earlier, if something dangerous
is happening right now, call 9-1-1. But
if something dangerous happened a while ago, call the regular number for the
police or your emergency contact person.
9) What if someone just tried to pull you into
a strange car?
a.
Call
9-1-1 because it just happened.
10) What
if someone grabbed your bag and ran away with it yesterday?
a.
Call
the non-emergency number because it happened a while ago.
11) Should you call 9-1-1 if someone says
something rude to you, like calls you a name?
a.
No,
this is not an emergency.
12) Is it
OK to call 9-1-1 as a joke?
a.
No, it
is never OK to call 9-1-1 as a joke.
9-1-1 operators and police officers are busy helping people with real
emergencies and do not have time for jokes.
You can get in trouble if you play with 9-1-1 and you do not have an
emergency.
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Sample Activities |
1) Activity Name: Group discussion
Materials Needed: List
of discussion questions
Description of Activity: Discuss when to call
9-1-1. People sometimes get confused
about what is considered an emergency.
Emergencies are any serious or life-threatening situation that requires
immediate help from a police officer, firefighter, or emergency medical help.
Which
one of these scenarios is an emergency?
Emergency vs. Not an Emergency:
a. Your friend dares you to call 9-1-1.
b. Your neighbor is having a loud party.
c. Your neighbor’s dog is barking.
d. Someone is hurt very badly.
e. You cannot find your CD player.
f.
A cat
is stuck in a tree.
g. You are bored and lonely at home and want to
talk to someone.
h. You are walking home and a stranger in a car
tells you he/she will take you home.
i.
Your
wallet is stolen.
j.
You are
at home with your father. He falls and
hurts himself. You talk to him, but he
does not speak.
2) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: Unplugged phone and a list of questions to ask student
Description of Activity: Unplug the phone and have the student practice dialing 9-1-1. Give scenario to student. Examples could include 1) your money is stolen in front of the local shopping center, 2) a stranger tries to get you to get in her car, and 3) your friend has a seizure and falls down and cuts his head and is bleeding badly and is not answering your questions.
The teacher can pretend to be a 9-1-1 operator (9-1-1 for Kids, Inc., 2001):
a. Student dials 9-1-1. (Stay calm and speak clearly.)
b. Student is asked the location/address where help is needed.
c. Student gives name and the phone number calling from.
d. Student describes the problem and indicates if just happened or is still in progress.
e. Student gives the description of the suspicious person and/or vehicle. Note to Teacher: Be aware that cognition and vision will vary for each student.
f. Student answers all the questions as quickly and accurately as possible.
g. Student follows the directions given by the 9-1-1 operator.
h. Student stays on the phone as long as it is safe to do so.
Lesson 11: Responding to an Attack
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Objectives |
1) Students will demonstrate in a role-play a
calm and non-confrontational response if they are mugged/robbed.
2) Students will demonstrate in a role-play use
of a loud voice and assertive language if a stranger tries to get them to go
with him.
3) Students will describe ways to get away and
where they can go to get help.
4) Students/instructor will locate local
resources for self-defense training.
5) Students will demonstrate a
non-confrontational response in a role-play if a person says mean things or
tries to start a fight.
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Discussion Topics |
1) There
are bad people who may want to rob or hurt you.
Bad people look for people who are alone, in isolated areas, and weak
looking. You can try to avoid these
people by traveling with other people, staying in well-lit areas with lots of
other people around, and looking confident and strong.
2) Sometimes people say mean or stupid
things. They might say something
rude about your visual impairment. If a
stranger says mean things to you, you should not argue with her or get in a
fight. That person could be a violent
person, and she could hurt you. You can ignore
the stranger, walk away, or say, “Leave me alone!” If someone keeps bothering you, get away and
get help.
3) Your money belongs to you. You now know that if someone asks you for
money, you don’t have to give it to him.
4) If
a bad person threatens you by saying she has a knife or a gun and wants your
money, you should give it to her. You do not know if the bad person does or
does not have a weapon. It is more important to stay safe than it is
to keep your money. You can’t spend your
money if you are in the hospital or if you are dead!
5) Tell the person where your money is. Let the person tell you whether they will get
it or if you should take it out. You
don’t want to scare someone with a weapon by reaching into your pocket without
telling him what you are doing (TCRC, 2001).
Give the person your wallet and then get away fast!
6) If you have money and someone is threatening
you, don’t lie and say that you don’t have any money. It might make that person mad and she might
hurt you. If someone asks you for money, you can lie and say
that you don’t have any. If someone threatens you, just give it to
her. Remember, your money and stuff can
be replaced, but you can’t (
7) If someone tries to hurt you or a stranger
tries to get you to go someplace with him, get away and get help. If you can get away from that person, get
away fast. Yell, “No, leave me
alone!” and then get away and get
help. You can get the attention of other
people by being loud and yelling things like “Help!” and “Fire!”
and “Call 9-1-1!” (David et al.,
1998).
Note to teacher: Saying
untrue things to get attention and help from others like “Fire” may be
confusing for some students. Use your
judgment to decide how you want to teach this concept.
8) It is OK to fight back if people are trying
to hurt you or to force you to go with them.
Hit and kick them using the self-defense techniques you learned from
your self-defense teacher. Use the Hines
break that your O&M teacher taught you.
It is even OK to hit with your cane.
Fight back and get away as soon as you can. Get away and get help!
9) Review:
a. If someone is making fun of you or being
mean, don’t argue or fight. First
step is to ignore it, and then you can walk away, and finally say, “Leave me
alone!” If the person keeps bothering you, get away and get help. You do not need to call 9-1-1 unless someone
threatened to hurt you.
b. If someone threatens you and asks for your
money, don’t argue or fight. Just give
it to her and then get away and get help.
If it just happened, then call 9-1-1.
c. If someone tries to hurt you or to get you
to go with him, get away and get help.
Yell and try to get attention of people nearby. You can say “No, leave me alone” or “Fire,
call 9-1-1!” If someone grabs you
and tries to make you go with him, fight back.
Hit and kick and use your self-defense techniques. Then get away and get help. You can call
9-1-1.
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Discussion Questions |
1) What
are some safe things you can do if a stranger says mean things to you?
a.
Walk
away.
b.
Ignore
it.
c.
Say,
“Leave me alone!”
2) Should you argue with a stranger who says
mean things to you?
a.
No, you
could make that person even madder and you could get hurt.
3) What if the person keeps bothering you?
a.
Get
away and get help
4) Should you call 9-1-1 if someone is being mean
to you?
a.
No,
this is not an emergency that the police need to know about.
5) What should you do if a stranger threatens
you and asks for your money?
a.
Give
the money to him
b.
Then
get away and get help
c.
Call
9-1-1.
6) Why should you tell the stranger where your
money is before you reach for it?
a.
So the
person doesn’t get scared and try to hurt you.
7) Should you lie about your money to someone
who is threatening you?
a.
No, it
might make that person angry and want to hurt you.
8) What should you do if someone tries to hurt
you or to force you to go someplace with her?
a.
Yell
and fight back!
b.
Get
away as soon as possible.
c.
Get
help.
d.
Call
9-1-1.
9) What are some things you could yell?
a.
Leave
me alone!
b.
Fire!
c.
Call
9-1-1!
d.
Make up
your own.
10) Let’s
practice saying those in a loud, clear voice.
Use your confident body posture!
a.
Leave
me alone!
b.
Fire!
c.
Call
9-1-1!
d.
Make up
your own.
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Sample Activities |
1) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed:
Wallet
Description of Activity: Stranger tells student, “I have a knife. Give me your wallet!” Student will give the robber her wallet and
then walk away. Student will describe a
safe place to get away and get help.
Student will identify this situation as a time to call 9-1-1.
2) Activity Name: Identifying local resources
Materials Needed:
Resource list (self-defense section), phone book, directory assistance, or
access to the Internet, materials for taking notes
Description of Activity: Discuss the need for self-defense training
with students. Talk about any relevant
resources on the list. Together make
your own list of schools or classes in the area and plan a way to begin
self-defense training within the next few months. You can conduct your own trainings if you
feel comfortable doing so.
3) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Stranger starts making fun of
the student. Student will 1) ignore, 2)
walk away, or 3) say, “Leave me alone!”
The mean person stops. After the
role-play, discuss which response they choose initially (ignore, walk away, or
“Leave me alone!”).
4) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed:
None
Description of Activity:
Stranger starts making fun of the student. Student will 1) ignore, 2) walk away, or 3)
say, “Leave me alone!” The person keeps
saying mean things, and the student walks away and gets help. After the role-play, discuss which response
they choose initially (ignore, walk away, or say, “Leave me alone!”). Ask, “Should you call 9-1-1?”
5) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: None
Description of Activity: Stranger tries to make the student come with her. Student will use assertive language and a
loud voice to refuse and will get away and get help. After role-play, discuss ways to fight back
(hit, kick, bite, Hines Break, use cane) if the stranger had been persistent.
6) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed: A self-defense
instructor
Description of Activity: Instructor will role-play a stranger who tries to make the student
come with him. Student will use
assertive language and a loud voice to refuse and will try get away and get
help. Instructor tries to physically
prevent the student from leaving; student uses self-defense techniques to get
away.
REFERENCES
David, Wendy, Kollmar, Kelly &
McCall, Scott. (1998). Safe without sight: Crime prevention and self-defense
strategies for people who are blind
Kaufman, Al & Hoff, Karissa (No date). Teaching personal safety training to
people who are visually impaired. [Handout].
Newman, Susan. (1985). Never Say Yes to a Stranger
9-1-1 for Kids A Children’s Educational Program. Online, Available: http://911forkids.com/dilemma.php,
9-1-1 for Kids A Children’s Educational Program. Online, Available: http://911forkids.com/whatdoisay.php,
CHAPTER 7: SAFETY IN THE HOME
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Lesson 3:
Emergency-If a Stranger Is in Your Home
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Why might someone want to break into your home? |
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Is a criminal more likely to enter your house if the lights are on? Why or
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You live on the first floor of an apartment building. When you leave, do you
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You leave an outgoing message on your telephone machine. Do you say you are
not home? Why or why not? |
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If you come home and have a feeling that something is not right, should you
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If you leave your house or apartment for a few days, what can you do to stop
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What should you do if you think there is a stranger in your house? |
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You are at home, and a person calls you and asks if you work outside of the
home during the day. What should you
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You are at home, and a person calls you and begins to ask you personal
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Someone knocks on your door. Do you ask who it is before or after you open
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Someone knocks on your door and says he/she is the plumber, ready to fix your
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Someone knocks on your door and says he/she is the plumber, ready to fix your
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A stranger comes to your door crying and asks you to help her or him. What should you do? |
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Someone rings your doorbell and says he is there to fix something in your
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What is one way someone may trick you in order to try to enter your house? |
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9.
The phone rings. Someone tells you that you have just won a trip, but needs
your address to send you the prize.
What should you do? |
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10.
Someone comes to the door and tells you she had a car accident and would like
to use your phone to call the police.
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Prompts? |
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If someone breaks into your house and asks for your money, is it better to
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What is more important: keeping yourself safe or keeping your belongings from
being stolen? Why? |
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Explain your escape route from your home/dorm/apt., etc. |
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If someone has broken into your house, and you have just called 9-1-1 from
your neighbor’s house, should you wait for the police at your neighbor’s or
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What do you do if you are at home and hear someone walking in your house? |
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What do you do if you are at home and the doorbell rings? |
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What do you do if you are at your house and someone throws a rock through
your window? |
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8. If someone breaks into your house and
demands you give him/her your watch, what should you do? |
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9. If there is a stranger in your house, is it
better to get away and get help as soon as possible or try to reason with the
person? |
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PRE TEST/POST TEST ASSESSMENT 4: SAFETY IN THE HOME
Amber is 14 years old. She
learned to take the bus from her middle school to her house. Usually her grandmother is there waiting for
her. This week, her grandmother is
ill. Amber’s mom says, “You are 14 now.
I think it is safe for you to use a key to let yourself in. I will be home about one hour after you. Remember all the safety rules we
discussed.” Amber is proud of her new
responsibility. At lunch, she tells her
friend Susan she will go home herself.
Susan says, “Great! Let’s invite Beth and go to your house after
school.” Amber does not really know Beth well, but she says, “OK.”
When the three girls arrive at Amber’s house, the door is partly open. They enter. While Amber is in the bathroom, the phone rings. Beth answers it as Amber returns. She says, “No, Amber’s mom is not here.”
In about an hour, Amber’s mom comes home from work. Beth says, “Someone called and I told them you were not home.” Amber’s mom is quite upset. She asks Susan and Beth to leave and sits down and has a long talk with Amber.
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Lesson 1: Keeping your Home Secure from Intruders
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Objective |
1) Students will be able to state upon request at least five ways to keep their home secure from intruders.
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Discussion Topics (This section is
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1)
The
cheapest way to stop crime is good lighting. Bad people who might want to hurt
you or steal your belongings will be scared off, if they think other people can
see them. They look for dark houses and places where they can hide. Make sure
your home or apartment is well lit, and that you have outside lights by all of
your doors. It is a good idea to keep a
few lights on indoors before coming home at night, so it looks like someone is
at home. Automatic timers can be set to
turn on specific lights and appliances on and off at various times. Even if you are completely blind and have no
need of lights, it’s a smart idea to turn lights on and off in various rooms so
that it appears from the outside that someone is home.
2)
Another
way to stop a criminal or bad person from breaking into your home is to leave a
radio or television on while you are out.
If a criminal hears noise from inside, he will likely think someone is
home, and will stay out.
3)
Finally,
you can stop criminals from breaking into your home by putting up fake signs to
scare criminals off. These may include a
“Beware of Dog” sign or a sign indicating that you have an alarm system.
4) Always lock windows and doors when you are
not at home and at night. A long, sturdy
stick placed in the metal tracks will also prevent someone from sliding open
doors and certain windows. Be especially
careful of open windows on the first story of a house or apartment.
5) When leaving an outgoing message on an
answering machine or voice mail, do not give away too much information. For instance, do not state your name, or
indicate that you live alone, and do not say that you are not home or on
vacation. Say something like, “We cannot
come to the phone right now, please leave a message, and we will get back to
you” instead of saying, “Hi, you have reached Jennifer. I am not home right now, but please leave a
message, and I will return your call.”
6) When entering your home, pay attention to
anything that seems unusual. If you feel funny or scared, trust your instinct
and your “uh-oh” feeling. It might mean
that an intruder was, or still is, in your home. Get out and get help. If you have a cell phone, leave your house
and call 9-1-1 or your emergency contact person. If you do not have a cell phone, go to a
neighbor’s house or a nearby business and get help. Wait where you are, and do not go back home
until you have help.
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Discussion Questions |
1) How does good lighting stop crime?
a.
It
scares off criminals because they do not want to be seen.
b.
Criminals
will usually stay away from houses with lights on because they will assume
someone is home.
2) What are some other ways to stop crime?
a.
Keep
the TV or radio on when not at home
b.
Put up
fake signs such as “Beware of Dog,” or alarm signs.
3) Why is it important to lock your windows and
doors?
a.
If they
are unlocked, it is easy for bad people to break into your house to steal
things or hurt you.
4) What would be an example of a safe outgoing
message you would leave on your answering machine?
a.
Say
“we” instead of “I.”
b.
Do not
use your name.
c.
Do not
say you are not home.
5) Why is it important to pay attention when you
enter your house?
a.
A
stranger or bad person may have broken in while you were gone.
6) What should you do if you think someone
broke into your house while you were gone?
a.
Get
away and get help.
b.
Once
you have left, either use your cell phone, or a phone at a trusted neighbor’s
house or a nearby store.
c.
Call
9-1-1 or your emergency contact person.
d.
Do not
return to your house until help has arrived.
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Sample Activities |
1) Activity Name:
Small group practice
Materials Needed:
Optional tape recorder or answering machine
Description of Activity: Break up into pairs and have each person practice what they would say
on an outgoing message and receive feedback. Refer to key points in topics and
discussion questions.
2) Activity Name: Scenario/Discussion
Materials Needed:
Sample scenarios
Description of Activity: Read each scenario you have, and ask students to describe what they
would do in each given situation.
Below is a sample
scenario, read and discuss with the group. After each student has successfully
demonstrated the correct responses, have each student come up with a potential
“uh-oh” scenario they may have when coming home.
You come home and
open your front door. As you are entering, your cane hits something on the
floor. You realize that your front table has been knocked over and is lying on
the floor. What should you do? (Examples include: leave immediately, call 9-1-1
or your emergency contact after leaving, and stay where you are until a safe
person arrives to help you.)
3) Activity Name: Incidental learning
Materials Needed: Hand-out for each student in print, large
print, braille, or tactile representations of key topics, and blank paper to
record responses in print, large print, braille, or tactile representation. Topics include: lighting, fake signs to scare
away intruders, auditory signs that you are home, locks, and answering machine.
Description of Activity: Have students evaluate their own living situation, going through each
topic systematically to determine what they could do to make it even safer.
Lesson 2: Strangers at the Door or on the Phone
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Objective |
1) Students will be able to state different ways to interact safely with strangers at the door or on the phone.
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Discussion Topics |
1) There are many different ways a stranger
could get into your home. Ways that
someone could get in include entering an unlocked door or window, breaking in,
and being invited in.
2) Criminals use various disguises and tricks
to gain access to your home. If someone comes to your door, you need to make
sure you know who that person is before opening the door to talk or let the
person in. Here are some examples of people and the tricks they might use to
get into your house (Fremont Police Department, 1996).
a. Ordinary people asking for help, or
requesting to come in to use the phone or bathroom.
b. Someone dressed like a maintenance worker,
postal worker, or other service worker, pretending he has business at your
house or is there to help you. He may also have a fake ID to trick you.
3) Never let someone in that you are not
expecting, or don’t know. Here are some ways you can respond if a stranger
comes to your door:
a. If you have usable vision, ask for an ID to
be slid under your door, or held up to a peephole.
b. If the person does not have ID, keep the
door locked and call 9-1-1 or your emergency contact.
c. If the person does have the ID, take the
next step to make sure it is real by checking to see if she works for that
company. Through the closed door, ask the name of the company, and then call
4-1-1 to get the number. Then call the company to make sure that this person
works for that company and has real business with you. If the stranger does
not, keep the door locked and call 9-1-1 or your emergency contact.
d. People may come to your door who really need
help. Here are some things you can do in this situation: offer to call the
police department for them to send help. You can also give directions to the
nearest store that will have a phone and bathroom. Remember to keep the door
locked while you are talking to the person, even if he seems very nice and like
he is in trouble.
4) Bad people may also call you to try to get
personal information about you or find out if you are home alone. If they get
that information, then they can hurt you or rob you. Here are some ways to keep
yourself safe on the phone (David et al., 1998):
a. Do not answer personal questions about
yourself or whom you live with. For example, do not answer if the person on the
phone asks if your roommate is home, or when he will be home, or if you work
during the day.
b. If someone is asking you personal questions,
it is OK to just hang up the phone. It is rude for a stranger to ask you
personal questions over the phone. It is not rude for you to hang up.
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Discussion Questions |
1) What are different ways that strangers can
get into your house?
a.
They
can break in a door or window.
b.
They
can knock on your door and pretend to have business at your house.
c.
They
can come in through an unlocked door or window.
2) Name ways that criminals may try to trick
you into letting them into your house.
a.
Pretending
that they are ordinary people who need help.
b.
Pretending
that they are maintenance workers who have business at your house.
3) What are some things to do if a stranger
comes to your door?
a.
Always
keep the door locked.
b.
If the
person asks for help, send that person to the nearest store/public phone, or
offer to call 9-1-1 for her/him.
c.
If the
person says she is there to do business with you, and you are not expecting
anyone, ask for an ID to be slid under the door or held up to the peephole.
d.
If they
do not have an ID, say, “Go away” and “I don’t have business with you.” If the stranger does not, call 9-1-1 or your
emergency contact person.
e.
If the
person does have an ID, call their business and check that the person is whom
he claims to be.
4) What are some things to do if a stranger
calls you on the phone?
a.
Do not
give personal information.
b.
Say, “I
do not answer personal questions.”
c.Hang up.
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Sample Activities |
1) Activity Name: Role-play
Materials Needed:
Room with a door; optional ID, clipboard, telephone
Description of Activity: Have each student do a role-play with you in which you play the role of
a stranger at the front door. Go outside the room and have student practice
keeping the door locked/closed. Use different scenarios with the different
students, including someone asking for help. Pretend to be a delivery person,
telephone repair person, etc. Then get feedback from the rest of the students.
2) Activity Name: Incidental learning
Materials Needed:
Telephone, closed door, and naturally occurring situations where people call or
come to the door. You could even have another unfamiliar adult pretend to be
“the stranger” if needed.
Description of Activity: Model the exact skills discussed in naturally occurring situations
with students present. For example if someone comes to the door, keep the door
closed, ask for verification, etc. Discuss what you did and why with the
students during and/or after.
Lesson
3: Emergency-If a Stranger Is in Your
Home
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Objective |
1) Students will be able to state that they
should get away and get help if a stranger is in their home.
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Discussion Topics (This section is adapted from David et
al., 1998) |
1) If you think a stranger has entered your
home, get away and get help! Make a plan
with your safe person with different ways to get out of your house quickly.
These ways might include: front door, back door, fire escape, or first story
windows. Get out of the house first, then find a phone and call 9-1-1. Stay
where you are until help arrives.
2) If you enter your home and feel that an
intruder is already there, get away and get help (for more information see
Chapter 6, Lesson 10).
3) If an intruder confronts you, do not argue.
Make it clear that the intruder can take whatever he wants. While most of your property can be replaced, you
cannot!
4) If someone tries to hurt you, fight back and
get away as soon as possible (for more information see Chapter 6, Lesson 11).
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Discussion Questions |
1) What should you do if you think a stranger
has entered your home?
a. Get away and get help.
b. Use your plan on how to get out quickly.
c. Once you are out, find a phone and call 9-1-1.
2) Multiple Choice: What should you do first if someone is in your home? Why?
a. Pick up your home phone and call 9-1-1
or
b. Get away and get help.
3) What should you do if a bad person is in your home and demands your watch or money?
a. Do not argue or fight.
b. Give it to the person.
c. Remember: your stuff can be replaced, but you can’t!
4) What should you do if a bad person is in your home and tries to hurt you?
a. Fight back.
b. Yell and make noise.
c. Get away and get help as soon as possible.
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Sample Activities |
1) Activity Name: Scenario
Materials Needed: Written scenario, list of key discussion points
Description of Activity: Read the following scenario to the students and/or make up others: You are at home and you hear the crash of glass breaking in your living room. Then you hear the thump of someone walking through your house. What should you do? Key discussion points include: get away and get help. Follow your plan to get out of the house, if confronted, do not argue, and get away and get help before you call the police.
2) Activity Name: Planning
your escape
Material Needed: Paper to write down individual plans in print,
braille, or tactile markers, or tape recorder and tape to record ideas
Description of Activity: Brainstorm with students possible ways to escape their home, apartment, dorm, or classroom. Then practice the escape plan together and provide feedback.
REFERENCES
David, Wendy, Kollmar, Kerry
& Mc Call, Scott. (1998). Safe without sight: Crime prevention and
self-defense strategies for people who are blind.
Fremont Police Department.
(1996). About personal safety. South
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This book gives a good overview of prevention and self-defense
techniques. Best suited for older
students with a high level of reasoning and experience.
2.
De Becker, Gavin
(1997). The gift of fear and
other survival signals that protect us from violence. Little Brown &
Co.
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A book containing real stories to illustrate the importance
of trusting your instincts in regards to personal safety.
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An excellent book that addresses the risks typical teenagers take and
how adults can guide them to take healthy risks.
4.
Milian, M and Erin, J
(2001). Diversity and visual
impairment.
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This is a benchmark publication for our field. It addresses the range of the visually
impaired population and implications for working with students/clients and with
families. Authors present customs,
family structures, traditions and how these variables affect work, education
and personal lives.
5.
Wooden, Kenneth (1995). Child
lures: What every parent and child
should know about preventing sexual abuse and abduction.
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A book that suggests practical and preventive strategies for 15
different lures for elementary aged students.
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Ms. Bozeman has written an article about self-defense for the visually
impaired. She also has a helpful links
on the spedex website with photos and descriptions of various self-defense
techniques. http://www.spedex.com/resource/poster_sessions/self_defense/defense.htm
7.
Davies, Judith.
(2003). Sexuality education for children with visual impairment: A parent’s
guide. www.tsbvi.edu/recc/social/htm.
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Article on
the internet that provides information about sexuality education for visually
impaired students and resources.
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Mr Kaufman and Ms. Hoff have taught basic self-defense seminars to
Orientation and Mobility instructors and people who are blind and visually
impaired. Their handouts describe basic
prevention, assertiveness, and self-defense techniques.
9.
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An excellent resource guide to books, videos, curricula etc. for
students with disabilities
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A website filled with practical suggestions for safety strategies,
self-defense, and links/resources.
Martial Hearts, based in Atlanta, Georgia, offers classes specifically
for visually impaired adults and children.
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Sexuality
Information and Education Council of the
A website with many publications and resources on the topic of sexuality
education, including specific resources for sexuality education and disability
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The
website for the
ANATOMICALLY CORRECT MODELS AND DOLLS
13. Jim Jackson and Company--
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This company offers rubber, life-size female and male
reproductive anatomy models.
14.
Teach-A-Bodies
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This company sells anatomically correct dolls.